How do I ask my girlfriend to sleep naked in bed with me?

[robot]

She used to sleep naked in bed with me. But now she sleeps in her pjs, how can I ask her to sleep naked? Any suggestions?

[blunty]

Approaching your girlfriend with a request about intimate preferences requires sensitivity, respect, and open communication. You may say her:

I wanted to talk to you about something a bit personal, and I hope we can discuss it openly and without any pressure. I've read and heard about couples sleeping naked together, and the benefits it can offer both emotionally and physically. For instance, some say it can increase skin-to-skin contact, which can release oxytocin, the bonding hormone, and even help with better sleep.

Now, I understand that comfort and boundaries are crucial, and I want to emphasize that your feelings and boundaries are paramount to me. I was wondering how you'd feel about trying this with me? If it's something you're not comfortable with or need time to consider, I completely respect that. Our relationship is built on trust, communication, and mutual respect, and I wouldn't want anything to compromise that.

Let me know your thoughts, and please remember that there's no pressure at all. I just thought it might be a new and intimate way for us to connect, but I value our relationship and your comfort above all else.

Ensure you listen to her response with understanding and be prepared to respect her choice, whatever it may be.

[zeitgeist057]

My suggestion would be to let her sleep in bed whatever way she wants. If she is more comfortable in pjs, then don't you want her to be as comfortable as possible?

However...

If you really like/prefer her to be naked in bed, let her know. You can simply encourage her with simple compliments like:

"It's so sexy when you sleep naked next to me. It turns me on."

"I love when you sleep in bed naked with me. I love your body and knowing it's right there next to me. I love to feel your bare skin."

(when she's naked sometime) "You look so good, my love. I'm reminded of when you used to sleep naked next to me, that was hot af."

Little things like this accomplish two things: it makes your girlfriend feel appreciated and lets her know at the same time that you want to see more of her naked. It sounds like you have no idea why she stopped sleeping naked, but in my experience women (people) operate on a fairly simple principle: if it feels good, they do it more. If she feels good about being naked, she will do it more. You can help her feel good about being naked by complimenting her. I have had great success with women (people) doing what I like simply by telling them how much I appreciate it when they do it. Works for all kinds of things from playing with my hair to bringing me a treat at work, or sexual favors even.

It's a win-win. They get a reward, you get a reward.

[Yannae]

The best thing you can do is ask her why she changed. You have already seen each other naked. This question should be okay to ask.

If she is cold, you can either raise that room temperature or use your bodyheat to keep her warm. Thicker blankets work too.

If she isn't confident in her looks anymore it is up to you to tell her why you miss it, what turns you on so much about her, what makes her so sexy. There are women who don't go to the pool because they are insecure about their body. This could be the same thing.

[_Maya_]

Ask her why she stopped. Also just ask her if she will. If she says no then let it go. She might just say she doesn't want to anymore and you should respect that. I don't like sleeping completely nude. Occasionally I will sleep with no top on but that is pretty rare. I always have at least underwear on when I sleep. I guess my question is why do you really want her to? I mean you are going to sleep so it isn't like you see her once you shut your eyes or she gets cozy under the sheets.

[katiesmuff]

Just plain ask her! Sometimes women after the flair and excitement of a relationship moves into a more permanent life it's pjs, robes etc. Let her know you still enjoy her all naked with her boobs bouncing, love the look of her naked ass and lovely pussy. Let her know you would like her to stay naked with you.

[OfMiceandMen]

Some women get cold easily and if you run warm like I do, the blankets get kicked off real quick. If she runs cold, she's less likely to want to sleep naked, if your kicking the blankets off.

You don't really see her when she is asleep, rather than ask her to sleep naked, maybe ask if she'd cuddle with you naked, till you're ready to fall asleep. Then she can pop her cozies on and you still get the satisfaction of her naked skin against yours all the way up to shutting the light off?

[provokeesmokee]

Is it too cold? Did you not fuck her those nights she came to bed naked?

Could be a lot of reasons. Just say you've noticed she's worn pjs more often, mention you miss sleeping nude together, and ask if she'd consider it. And/or ask why - because if she's cold, turning up the thermostat could solve everything.

[Mamaliv]

Maybe she is feeling insecure, gained a lb or two? Warship her body, tell her everything you love about having her skin bare and in bed next to you, if she feels sexy naked around you she will lose the pjs.

[Guardian45]

Well said

[Nikki1989]

Maybe she was feeling cold. Crank up the heat.

[Monalisa77]

In this weather?

[BigDog1989]

Well, you can ask her but, she's allowed to say no. Just tell her, can we sleep naked? Tell her you like when she is, ya know, make her feel good about her body etc.. tell her that body heat can keep each other warm etc..

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Don't beat around the bush.

Just ask.

[RobT312]

Just ask…do u already sleep naked in bed with her?
My wife started by sleeping a couple times a week naked with me and the pjs eventually went away!

[Anonymous]

She used to? What changed? Figure that out and you might be able to fix it and change her mind. I’m guessing that you sleep naked normally anyway.. it is healthier to sleep make it so you could tell her that, pretty sure there are links online that talks about it

[AviatorTom]

Just tell her you like it when the two of you sleep naked together, and you'd like to do that more often. Don't tie it always to sex though. Women like to get their beauty sleep.

[Mac-One]

Just ask. Say it is enjoyable to cuddle her with the body contact when nude or wearing just panties.

[Anonymous]

do you get naked with her when she used to do it? my boyfriend jokingly asks me to sleep naked sometimes and i tell him i will if he will (and he does), other times i simply dont feel like being naked and he lets it go.

[kellytheman]

Try to have sex with before bed and rip all her pjs off during sex. Then after you both exhausted from some good sex just cuddle together and fall asleep while your both naked.

[Nifrayu]

Firstly, why do you want her to? Do you enjoy skin to skin cuddles? Do you like seeing her body? Do you just think it's sexy? What ever the reason is, express that to her.

[DextroShade]

Just straight up tell her you would prefer her naked.

[Paul09]

I find it weird that people need pjs for bed. And little dirty to be fully naked. Undies for the win. Being warm it hot isn't good for sleeping either .

[andreasderjuengere]

Dump her. You two can't even talk about the simplest things.

[gorydetails]

Try this radical idea. Say to her: "Hey, would you be comfortable sleeping naked in bed with me?"

[OddBeMe]

Ask. But if she says no don’t push it, they have some sensitivity toward being forced into “sexy” things

[Twalli]

Find out why she now wears pajamas. There is a reason. Without knowing that, you can't get her to change back

[Ahmarooz190]

How did you ask questions in here, same thing open your mouth and say it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

The bigger question is why the change.

[Sparkie460]

Just ask her why she stopped.

[Anonymous]

Have you tried fucking before bed?

[hornyguytbh]

Ask her and compliment her

[Anonymous]

Have you asked her why she stopped sleeping naked?

[artgorgeous]

Just ask

[jimmy2]

Just ask

[Anonymous]

you don't