I recently got into a relationship with a girl who I find has a really nice face but does have a history of putting on and losing weight quickly.
The problem is that she won't undress for me during sex - she's too self-conscious about her weight. She doesn't wear underwear and wears a sports bra instead of a regular bra because she doesn't feel right (or worthy) wearing sexy underwear. She's also constantly talking about her weight and how her sister is more beautiful than her and she even admitted to me that 6 months ago was the first time she ever publicly wore a bikini (she's 26 for reference).
I'm really not sure if I can continue this relationship because she always needs reassurance that I find her adorable... she was easy before me... and her last boyfriend was an unemployed bum whereas she's a respiratory therapist pulling in $30/hour... my theory being that she doesn't feel she deserves a guy any better. She also doesn't trust me because I'm a bit "above" some of the guys she dated in the past (I work as an engineer)
This has gotten to a point where I can't get hard anymore thinking about her... which only further makes her insecure
What do I do?
The problem is that she won't undress for me during sex - she's too self-conscious about her weight. She doesn't wear underwear and wears a sports bra instead of a regular bra because she doesn't feel right (or worthy) wearing sexy underwear. She's also constantly talking about her weight and how her sister is more beautiful than her and she even admitted to me that 6 months ago was the first time she ever publicly wore a bikini (she's 26 for reference).
I'm really not sure if I can continue this relationship because she always needs reassurance that I find her adorable... she was easy before me... and her last boyfriend was an unemployed bum whereas she's a respiratory therapist pulling in $30/hour... my theory being that she doesn't feel she deserves a guy any better. She also doesn't trust me because I'm a bit "above" some of the guys she dated in the past (I work as an engineer)
This has gotten to a point where I can't get hard anymore thinking about her... which only further makes her insecure
What do I do?
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