My girlfriend Amber doesn’t let me see her naked anymore, but let’s everyone else see her naked. For example, she walks around naked at night in her living with lights on. Not caring that people outside can see her. The moment I come upstairs she rushes to put on a towel so I don’t see her naked. When she goes swimming with her friend Sadie she changes at Sadie’s house with the door open….. letting everyone see her fully nude. Sadie’s husband and son make jokes about it when when they’re get drunk.
My and Amber have been together for 2 years. We’ve struggled with our sexuality for most of the time. I’ve been on this site before discussing our issues. She never wants sex and dick teases me to only give it up once a month. She always flashes her breasts at me and says “I’m the hottest woman you’ll ever see, and you’re getting none”. I tried to sit down and talk to her about our sex life and how I don’t like how she’s dick teasing me. She got so angry that she broke up with me.
We got back together soon after. When we got back together she said “if you think I’m dick teasing then you won’t see me naked ever”.
So now I’m in a sexless relationship and I never see her naked. I’m emotionally attached to Amber and I’m really attracted to her. It’s hard to leave her. I feel like she’s the best I’ll ever get. It’s gonna near impossible for me to find a new girlfriend at this point. I live with my parents at nearly 35, I only make $24/hour, I’m 5k in debt, and I don’t have any intelligence.
Amber really wants to get married. She told me if I don’t purpose to her by fall she’s going leave me for good. I know I can’t marry Amber but I’m terrified of loosing her. I don’t want anyone else but her. I tried dating other women due our break up and I was still thinking about Amber. These women weren’t really into me. They just liked me for my dick size.
It's pretty clear your relationship with Amber is not good for you. She's making it harder for you to live the way you should. You can find someone better because a better person wouldn't treat you the way Amber does. She may be the most physically attractive person you can get, but her looks will eventually fade. In 40 years she won't look nearly as hot, but you may have found someone who genuinely loves you and wants to be what you are seeking. You'd win in that case because you got the right girl and Amber's looks don't get guys interested in her anymore.
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You’re absolutely right. I’m setting up an appointment with a psychiatrist because I know I need serious help. It’ll take time I just need all the help & support I can get
A girl only says that kind of shit to a guy she thinks is a doormat... you gotta quit with all the I lovvveee youuuu bullshit... everyone is replaceable... you just need to remind her of that... if you really do want to stay with this chicken you gotta Do a little trick, in sales it's called the take away. . people want what they can't have... the second she thinks your interested in something else her attitude will change... turn her into the doormat
I'm more concerned about the ultimatum with the marriage part. She's willing to drop you by autumn for it, she'll be willing to divorce you too. And sexless on top of that. What is stopping you from finding another girl? Don't you know that this is why men get driven to cheat?
Wait, you earn $24/hr living with your parents, meaning little to no bills, and you can't clear a measly $5k of debt? You need an accountant, not a girlfriend.
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