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Because now a days if a girl trys to make the first move most guys right her off as a "pick me" girl or to thirsty.
Or guys will just reject for an ego boost. I've had a friend who is a solid 9, good girl ask out a guy who's a solid 7 just ghost her for admitting she liked him. And he is now with a girl who isn't even close to my friend.
That is just what I've seen.
So you think girls were more open about her intentions 30 years ago?
In terms of what guys are thinking, I truly believe you are mistaken. The rejecting for an ego boost does not really happen. He probably likes this other girl's personality and didn't like your friend's or he has a certain physical type that he finds prettier than what you find pretty.
For example, many people thought Angelina Jolie was the prettiest person 10 years ago. I didn't ever think she was pretty. I'm sure there is a guy many girls find handsome who you don't find attractive too right?
All that being said, I'm not trying to say that girls should state their intentions right away. I know that guys sometimes think that it's too easy and subconsciously question a girl's worth although many guys might not realize it or like to admit it.
You're 100% correct. But that's just what I have heard from my friends. So I thought I would share.
I've been in a relationship with the same person since middle school so I can't relate. I just was answering based on what real girls have complained about to me.
The thought of Rejection bothers us just as much as you guys
You're 32? Why don't you just ask them out if you are interested?
I do all the time. I'm wondering because I have 3 younger sisters who are like this and I am curious what people have to say
Do you have any answers since you're 49 and more experienced?
I don't think much about the motivations of strangers. I just ask for what I want.
Oh how unfortunate