A lot of women dont deserve a good man. Agree or disgree?

[Anonymous]

I agree

I disagree

[patrick994]

Many women are very pretentious, despite being ugly, poor, and with a bad character they demand to have the handsome, physique and career man, and what do they offer in return? Nothing, maybe sexually they are not able to satisfy you fully, they break their boxes and do nothing but complain.

Of course I am not referring to all women, but it cannot be denied that not all of them are deserving of having a good man by their side

[Cossack1945]

Agree, but I would say 'some women', not 'a lot of' women. Just as there are boorish men who don't deserve a fine woman.

[Ozanne]

So, naturally I think this topic is meant to round up women-hate, which I'm against. No different than the fact that I'm against men-hating. It's meant to find the faults you don't like in the women you've been exposed to, all the while ignoring the rest of the women out there.

Regarding this response you made below to BarryLiverstone: "Being a premuscious [sic], having high standards when they themselves bring little to the table and have entitlement issues"

1. Promiscuous women are only as promiscuous as the men they are with. It takes two to tango. Yet women aren't as hung up on the numbers for men as men are for women. That's a bit hypocritical, and you leave us little choice. We either experiment, just as men do, or we remain virgins until we meet you. But you better marry us when we're virgins! -- otherwise we accumulate the dreaded body count you hate us having! :)

The thing is that you are attracted to beautiful women (and understandably so), and a lot of beautiful women are likely getting a lot of male attention and end up having sex. On the flip side, if you truly want someone with little sexual experience, you'll have to find it in a different type of girl, and she might be someone you just aren't attracted to. Therefore, you can't have it both ways.

2. Having high standards when they bring little to the table and are entitled. I do agree with you on this. No one should feel they deserve so much for so little, or nothing at all. But again, there are droves of women who are not like this. They are out getting careers and being responsible. But what happens to women like this? I can tell you from experience: men outright have told [me] that women like me "scare" them. I can't tell you how many times I've met men in my early days working in my career of choice, making my way to management, and when I showed interest in a man, he has told me I'm too good for him or passed me over for a ditzy nutcase with big boobs. One of two things, he simply found me unattractive, or he wanted a woman he felt he could be more-than with. Someone he could control. Someone he thought would fawn all over him with appreciation for what he had since she didn't have as much.

If the answer is unattractiveness, that's fine. But don't say we're not out there. We are, and we are someone else's cup of tea. (I managed. Had a few relationships and now married.) But if we are now a threat because we appear like we can do it on our own and don't need you, what exactly is "bringing something to the table" if it's not a partnership for security? It's either the ability to open our legs (but you say you dislike promiscuity), or it's to be lesser-than in terms of professionalism. Sounds like women will have better luck working at lemonade stand, where they will still rely on their men while appearing busy during the day! :D

We women have been put in a corner to have no choice but to look after ourselves due to the cost of living, and the broken promises of marriage that have us starting over, and often times with children in tow. There again, we're seen as used goods. With so many men being picky about this, women will have a harder time to find someone, and must continue on to be independent -- something you allude to wanting, but dislike it once it's in front of you.

So let's be honest. It's not that women in general are not deserving of good partners. Of course we are! So do men! But you should take a look at the many women you've been passing over instead of remaining in the belief that there are drop dead gorgeous virgins with part time jobs just waiting for you, because even if you find her -- you'll then have to factor in other important things to attract you such as her personality and interests, and whether or not you two simply have the chemistry to be together. On top of that, she has to be interested in you right back. All of that will happen when Mercury is in Retrograde. :D

Anyway, all I'm saying is maybe broaden your dating pool. Take notice of the women who are married -- what other men snapped up, and then ask yourself if maybe the pool of women you're unhappy with is maybe just one type, and should not be unfairly judging all women because of them.

[Asker]

I'm not a high value man. I don't have options nor do i pass up women

[Ozanne]

So you say.

[Asker]

Its true. Most men dont have options

[Ozanne]

Well that's just untrue. There are plenty of men who have stated preferences. Go see for yourself on a dating site. Make an account as a woman and go see for yourself what men say they are looking for.

[Asker]

They have preferences but not many of them are high value men that can have those options. And men on dating apps will date anything. A dude already debunked this pretending to be an obsese and cripple woman

[Ozanne]

Oh yes, that totally explains why there are groups like MGTOW and other men who have just written off women completely, and gone into a women-hating state because they're not finding women of their standards. Men who have made it clear they want traditional, virginal women who are gorgeous, if they can't find them, decide to shun all others.

[Asker]

a lot of those men are coping and never even had one to begin with. And there's hardly any virgin women especially in the U. S so it's unrealistic for them to expect to find a virgin

[Sweetsurprize]

Disagree. I heard for every three "catch" of a woman, there's only 1 husband material of a man.

https://www.quora.com/Why-can-t-I-find-a-husband

[Sweetsurprize]

See Rosemarry Z's answer.

[AaronKrieger]

I disagree, but nice troll post, lmao.

[Asker]

Who said i was trolling

[Anonymous]

Deserve is a matter of opinion. I would say more accurately most women don't do enough to EARN a good man. I like to give people the benefit of doubt. That's why I'm on here. To HELP! So I'll listen and I'll give advice some women listen. Some women have no intention of improving thier position. Again, help who you can. The rest you just have to leave alone.

[LazerBean]

True. Most people dont deserve a good spouse.

[Archferret]

It depends on the man!

[BarryLiverstone]

Give more context to your question

[Asker]

Being a premuscious, having high standards when they themselves bring little to the table and have entitlement issues

[BarryLiverstone]

You are specifically talking about girls who have little experience and are mimicking what they have heard elsewhere. In that case like the ignorant guys no they haven’t yet earned a good partner

[Asker]

a lot of women are like that. Wanting and wanting without giving

[BarryLiverstone]

If that’s what you are seeing then maybe you should change up your environment. Selfishness is human and all people are capable

[Asker]

Yes but when you have high standards but don't bring much your self its laughable

[BarryLiverstone]

Is that your intension with this question? To laugh at people who want high standards and aren’t willing to put in the effort?

[Asker]

You catch on quick

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s ok, you will keep trolling and wasting time. Is your life really that bad bro?

[Asker]

Unplug from the matrix please

[BarryLiverstone]

Ditto

[BLP11520]

I think everyone should have a good mate

[Asker]

Disgree. Not everyone deserves a good partner