Why aren't women creeped out by the comments their "girlfriends" make about their bodies?

[MyOwnMan2]

I'm convinced if men didn't [originally] run society the handshake would turn into rubbing your genitals together like bonobos monkeys.

Women are more sexual than men

Other

[BoobSlayer]

Women possess a unique understanding of the intricacies and complexities that come with living in a male-dominated society fixated on boobies, honkers, and titties. As ironic as it may seem, objectifying each other's assets can serve as a form of empowerment.

Women navigate a network of unwritten rules and hidden codes among friends, where statements about coconuts and boom booms are exchanged without malice or sexual innuendo. These comments often come from a place of admiration for curves and cream pies, reminding each other that their bodies are not just ripe with delicious melons but are indeed assets.

Women acknowledge the struggles they face together, just like slaves who sing "Coom Baya" or call each other "Nigga" and through their camaraderie, they create a safe space to discuss the challenges they encounter with their fried eggs and gazoongas. In the midst of these discussions, the focus is actually on objectification to vulnerability and self-expression. #BoobSlayer

[AaronKrieger]

It's probably the same for how guys react to that shit. A lot of guys joke around with their friends by acting gay ironically, since most men are straight. Despite that, a lot of guy still aren't uncomfortable with it (I'm that way myself).

However, if a female friend does it, then we're questioning their intentions immediately, as most women are straight. That's why barely any of our female friends do it, since it can be easily misinterpreted. I'm assuming it's the same for women when it comes to this shit.

[Ozanne]

Some of us are. I don't particularly like it when some women get cute and make a silly comment to me such as, if they were a lesbian they'd "do me". (Yes, that has actually been said to me.) Some women just think they have a free pass to say stupid things because they are women -- saying them to other women, but they don't.

If it's something non-suggestive, such as discussing our body parts, and a woman says something like, "Do you have a problem finding bras since your boobs are big?" that's a bit different. It's a fact, it's not exactly an insult, and it's meant to talk about something other than the boobs themselves. If a woman says, "You have delicious looking tits. I'd love to see your bra collection." Then no. Not cool.

[DizzyDesii]

It made me extremely uncomfortable when girls would make sensual comments about my boobs and thighs. It wasn’t just in a compliment way. It was in a “I’m attracted to you and would try to turn you out” type of way. I don’t play that. I’m less offended when guys do it, because I’m attracted to men and only men. But it really does depend on the guy and how long we’ve gotten along for me to accept such comments. If he's a stranger then yes he’d creep me out just like someone of the same sex making the comment

[ItsChloe1999]

There’s something you should know about women, when we become girlfriends we often talk about each other’s body parts. I remember back when I was in high school and college, me and my girlfriends would rush to the girls bathroom and take off our tops and bras and show and compare each others tits.

[inhua]

women make comments about each other's boobs and butts all the time. only hot men are allowed to the same. ugly men are automatically branded criminals for having any sexual thoughts towards women

[provokeesmokee]

Some women are.

Others like it because it's "safe" coming from one of their female friends.

It's all individual.

[236color]

What does your question have to do with your bizarre opinion on handshakes?

[Christoff92]

Really where did you hear this 🤔 Many women can really get creeped out by their friends encountered appraisals about their bodies. Which explains why many women can be very body shy in public. Sad 🫤

[wallflower_fantasy]

I would be creeped out. That’s just weird. If that’s a thing then that’s just wrong. No just no.

[Anonymous]

Because they know their friends don't want to have sex with them and it's all game and platonic.

[Chthou95]

This is actually a good point. A man telling a girl her ass looks nice will be met with annoyance or feeling creeped out. But let it be s woman and it's playful shit now.