How to confuse/interest/bait a girl?

[AndyWes]

I've been chasing this girl for a little while, and it's gone from us being friendly, her accepting a few dates, me dropping off for a while, her finding another guy and wanting nothing to do with me, to her suddenly saying she wants to keep in touch online, even though I didn't ask. (We don't go to the same school now.)

I was wondering... well, I heard advice that you have to spark a girl's interest by mildly confusing her and making her chase *you*. Like, I think I unintentionally did that partly--she said something and expected me to be angry, but I responded very kindly like it hadn't bothered me in the least (it hadn't), then she suddenly decided she wanted to keep in touch online, though she quickly added the 'as friends' line.

So... I learned that's one thing. Respond to anger with kindness. What are other things that spark girl's interest, make them curious and want to figure you out? I'm completely new at that game, ha. I promise I'm not trying to hurt her, and if she told me to get lost or something I'd leave her be, lol.

[radomname]

I tink that really depends on the girl, maybe she really wants to have a good friend.. or she suddenly thinks you are interesting. The question is, are you in the friend zone or not? I had that problem a few times already, sometimes they wanted only to be friends and I ended up being really frustrated. Another girl said she wanted to be friends, 2 dates later she wanted to hook up with me. I think you just shouldn't stalk her too much, and DO NOT tell her TOO much about your feelings, that way, she will be confused about what you feel, that will her make her more interested in you. You can else not write much with her between the dates, but remember to be reliable.

[Mortalgod21hfzelvqr]

Not to be mean, really, but this text reaches me as quite respectless towards girls, tell me what your plans are (e.g. make friends or whatever) and then I could answer this question but girls are not toys you can play with guy.

[AndyWes]

I want... I want to matter to her as much as she matters to me.

[Mortalgod21hfzelvqr]

If that's the case then I can help you if you want my advice, but I won't post that here because I wouldn't want just veerybody to know that like loverboys etc, my personal methods they might abuse them and that's not what I want, I don't mean to exagerrate my abilities but... shouldn't do what's not wise.

I cna email you if you want on it just give me a reply.

[Mortalgod21hfzelvqr]

But only if she's really special for you, a special personality.

[Anonymous]

You said you're new at this game...that's what it is,a game. If she liked you for more than a friend, then you would know. Think of one of your friends that's a girl...is there anything she could do that would make you like her for more than a friend? It's not that it's a bad thing to play flirty little games, you just have to recognize them for what they are.

[Anonymous]

why the hell do you want to be with this girl? She isn't into you at all. No offence, I'm just being honest, you should stop wasting you're time.

[AndyWes]

None taken.