Why girls say they can't find good guy, but reject good guys?

[Anonymous]

I have heard a lot of my girl friends complain about it.

I just heard that a girl who I used to like rejected me for a guy. The guy was 20cm shorter, really skinny, ugly face, and he cheated on her, while I would have been a 100% better boyfriend.

Why do they say they can't find a good guy, but aren't open when there is opportunity?

[HelpfulWoman]

"i'm a nice guy"
no, and the "opportunity" of dating you isn't actually anything special. No one has to like you. You liking them doesn't entitle you to being their partner.
That you don't understand that shows exactly why you're not a "good guy".

[Asker]

i didn't mean nice guy. but someone who is better-looking, funnier etc

[HelpfulWoman]

which is all subjective. so while you think you're a catch, your personality might say otherwise :)

[Asker]

I'm not talking about me. in general I noticed

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD ahuh

[slatyb]

Right. The truly good guys don't consider themselves better than others, simply more fortunate. "Why is she dating him instead of me since I'm obviously better?" answers itself.

[slatyb]

She wasn't feeling it with you. That's the way it goes. If you really are a good guy, you won't have much trouble meeting someone else.

[Anonymous]

Well, most guys rarely know what a good guy really is.