I'm a fat, 33 year old man. I live on disability, ride around on a mobility scooter and have a form of brain damage. I have nothing to provide but my love, commitment and support. I'm sorry you have bad experiences, but don't project that on all women. I've dated men and women who loved me for me, there were no illusions or lies. They knew exactly what they would get when dating me. None of them became my exes for the things I wasn't or didn't have and all of them are still my friends. I've never had a destructive breakup.
@Zenpanda that's great for you if this is true and the people you've dated are similar to you
however unless they stood by you during your absolute worst or have showed inclinations of doing so, that claim can not be made
and by absolute worst I'm referring to you being in the midst of multiple sexual allegation claims or a gang of dangerous thugs are out to get you
do these people ride and die by you to the very end or do they jump ship when the going gets tough? true ride and die loyalty is extremely rare these days whether from man or woman
@inhue they weren't all similar to me in body type nor disabilities or money situation.
As for my worst, my first girl saw me become disabled and stayed with me for years after. My first boyfriend saw me become worse due to more medical problems. The other situations you mentioned haven't happened to me and I hope they won't. That said they shouldn't be a measurement to determine their love. If they stick with you in the normal bad, it's enough. They stuck with me with the knowledge that I couldn't give them money, gifts, vacations or lots of activities. So I know they loved me. None of them broke it off because of me but because of circumstances. So either I have been very lucky or you have yet to find luck.
@Zenpanda if that's how you want to interpret "luck" but given that neither are still with you begs to differ depending on the intentions at hand. "circumstances" sounds very convenient if there's a repeated pattern of this going on
@inhue Circumstances were very valid. Mental health prevented one to put herself into a relationship anymore (she's still single due to that). Duration 7 years. One girl had to move to another country. Duration 2 years. Boyfriend was long distance, we couldn't stand the time apart and moving wasn't an option. Duration 2 years. There is time between those. So no similar circumstances nor pattern. It just didn't work.
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no amount of blue-pill music or any blue-pill entertainment for that matter is changing the truth
women don't love men for who they are. they love men for what they are and what they can provide
doesn't matter what part of the world it is or their belief system. biology will always override morals and politics
I'm a fat, 33 year old man. I live on disability, ride around on a mobility scooter and have a form of brain damage. I have nothing to provide but my love, commitment and support.
I'm sorry you have bad experiences, but don't project that on all women.
I've dated men and women who loved me for me, there were no illusions or lies. They knew exactly what they would get when dating me. None of them became my exes for the things I wasn't or didn't have and all of them are still my friends. I've never had a destructive breakup.
@Zenpanda that's great for you if this is true and the people you've dated are similar to you
however unless they stood by you during your absolute worst or have showed inclinations of doing so, that claim can not be made
and by absolute worst I'm referring to you being in the midst of multiple sexual allegation claims or a gang of dangerous thugs are out to get you
do these people ride and die by you to the very end or do they jump ship when the going gets tough? true ride and die loyalty is extremely rare these days whether from man or woman
@inhue they weren't all similar to me in body type nor disabilities or money situation.
As for my worst, my first girl saw me become disabled and stayed with me for years after.
My first boyfriend saw me become worse due to more medical problems.
The other situations you mentioned haven't happened to me and I hope they won't.
That said they shouldn't be a measurement to determine their love.
If they stick with you in the normal bad, it's enough.
They stuck with me with the knowledge that I couldn't give them money, gifts, vacations or lots of activities.
So I know they loved me.
None of them broke it off because of me but because of circumstances.
So either I have been very lucky or you have yet to find luck.
@Zenpanda if that's how you want to interpret "luck" but given that neither are still with you begs to differ depending on the intentions at hand. "circumstances" sounds very convenient if there's a repeated pattern of this going on
@inhue
Circumstances were very valid.
Mental health prevented one to put herself into a relationship anymore (she's still single due to that). Duration 7 years.
One girl had to move to another country. Duration 2 years.
Boyfriend was long distance, we couldn't stand the time apart and moving wasn't an option. Duration 2 years.
There is time between those.
So no similar circumstances nor pattern.
It just didn't work.
The only things that are loved unconditionally are children and dogs
I disagree strongly
Sorry forgot to add on women for some reason
Single mothers are women too. Do you think they are loved unconditionally?
Yes.
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