Are men and women really capable of love?

[Anonymous]

I have heard a lot of people say that men can’t love or women can’t love… I think that there is great people out there. Many people just settle for the wrong one

[Anonymous]

Depends what you mean by Capable. Most women today simply don't want anything permanent today. And thanks to feminism and equality they don't need one. Sure, I'm sure some still say they do. But what they mean is a guy that will be there for them that they can discard whenever she bores of him. No worthwhile guy is going to take that deal. And if he foolishly does. He learns from it and knows not to again.

Now we can flip this and look at the men's side. Men have always had a duty to women. After generations men have been told your services are no longer required. Only when she wishes. So men have stopped trying. They've stopped doing many of the things that made them men. Now men have learned to define new roles for themselves independent of women. Women used to invest in men and make them work for her. Now women just call men up whenever she wants some attention. A bootycall here and there. So even the few women that do actually want men in thier traditional roles lose out to the woman who'll give it away all nice and easy. Now there's no need for guys to make any effort.

Me? I just like to watch the whole s**t show. 😆😆😆

[Asker]

There is some women who want best of both worlds. They want the benefits of modern day feminism and also the benifits of traditionalism.

Most women aren’t like this through

[MementoMori777]

Yes of course, I know I have the ability to love, the real kind not the one that people use to benefit off others

[Asker]

Same

[Xoxocutekitty]

Yes and no.

Both men and women can be capable.

Objectively some people have jobs and/ or lifestyles that make it a LOT harder to maintain a traditional relationship.

Examples of difficult jobs: Long distance truck drivers, seasonal workers, pilots/airline attendants, consultants that travel every week, late night bartending/casino worker, stripper/bouncer, some wedding coordinators

Examples of difficult lifestyles: substance addiction, several mental health issues, unrealistic libido (both directions)

[Asker]

Most people whether in a traditional relationship or not love each other

[Yannishka]

Yeah but some can't anymore. They gave too much and got struck down hard.

[Asker]

Unfortunately that’s true. We can’t become the monster we fight. We can’t become like them

[Rosexøxø]

Men can't.

I think desmond doss loved. Maybe Barak Obama.

That's about it.

Men can't and they simply don't.

Everything is sex/food/shelter/rich/advance.

That's it.

No guy writes cards or thinks of cute new dates or I don't know holds her in the shower.

Romance is love.

There can be bromance and sismance or whatver lol siblingmance where yk they do adorable thoughtful things too, for each other, but it's just not called romance, and it's not disgusting. Just adorable and thoughtful.


Men aren't thoughtful... lol

of anyone.

Let's all get our underwears out of twists and just accept that

[Rosexøxø]

not themselves or their parents or their brothers.

fuck/ adventure/ work/ that's it. simple things. Which is yk... okay, but to answer your question- no, they really can't.

Unless! they're low libido and asexual lol

I don't know what it is about my dad, but he has had a few good moments of being thoughtful. He's a good guy. (no incest. He's just a cool dude).

[Asker]

I can love….. but some men can’t. Seems you’re sexist

[Asker]

Your just sexist. You obviously hate men and think we’re all the same. Yes there is men like this but

[Rosexøxø]

shut up men can fuck me and I can fuck them.
That's it.

You're entirely incapable of loving.

Here's your chance to prove me wrong- what's the nices thing you ever did for someone you loved?

hm? hm?

Yeah, I'll wait.

[Asker]

I don’t think you’re capable of love

[Asker]

Been there for them when they needed someone, gave them gifts, told them how much I love them, prayed for tjem, the list goes on

[Asker]

But. I get it… it must be really hard for anyone to love you and I’m so sorry for that

[OlderAndWiser]

Guys who say “women are incapable of love,” once tried to rush into a relationship, got rejected, and spend the rest of their lives blaming women instead of trying to analyze how they screwed up.

[Asker]

And sometimes frankly chose the wrong type of women

[OlderAndWiser]

True!

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm not a fan of love. I used to buy into that whole angle of love, when I see infatuation it just makes me cringe and I smile to myself thinking I am better and that I know I'm better. If I ever had a relationship or do a relationship someday with a woman, I feel like I much prefer the healthy "really like" couple versus being an "overly loved up couple" feels overwhelming and kind of odd. Like, I like my space 🌌🚀 lol 🤣

[Asker]

True. If your somekone who needs space you need someone whose the same. But you want someone to LOVE you. Not just be infatuated with you and then wanna change you when they find you’re not the person tneh made you to be

[Asker]

Love and infatuation and lust are different things.

[LiamJHayden]

Anyone can love. It just requires seeking the best for the other person. The problem is most people are too selfish to want to truly do that.

[Asker]

True. You gotta find the right one

[Nikki1989]

Everybody is capable, but some put up a wall around themselves which makes it almost impossible.

[Asker]

Do you when you have a girlfriend? Do you love him

[Jazzy54]

Absolutely.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so.

[Asker]

Okay. But why not?

[Opinion Owner]

I think men are capable but women are opportunistic and hypergamous. They feel "love" when they're still not bored, when their needs are being met. Once she's bored or finds a guy that can give her access to more money, bigger dick, bigger house, feelings are transferred to the new guy and she's onto the next "love"

[Asker]

Most decent women can feel love.

[Asker]

They love their spouse. Kids. Family.

A woman who wants to run relationship to relationship will probably yeah divorce you and even leave her own kids. Disgusting

[clampfan101]

Absolutely.