Hello, ladies. I come to you with hopes there are still enough women left to make a difference. Here’s a hard truth, a bitter pill to swallow. Men don’t want to marry us anymore. They’ve given up. They don’t think women are capable of loving them like they used to. It’s sad, it’s scary, it’s wrong. What is wrong with women now? Glad you asked.
Women have always been sweet, thoughtful, nurturing, charming and manicured. Those qualities are what men fall in love with. We used to clean and cook so that our husbands had a sanctuary he could come home to. We used to dress in pretty garments to catch his eye, make us feel sexy and give him something worth fighting for. Isn’t that beautiful? Women make a house a home.
Feminine women are stunningly attractive to men. They are sweet, positive, and something worth cherishing.
Truth be told, women are uncomfortable by nature taking the lead. Respect is exchanged when two people fall into their roles, and their is no power struggle. I work a full time job, I cook and clean. I do my hair and makeup, my husband is always on my mind in the best ways. I always go out of my way to do sweet things for him, because I know that he appreciates it and reciprocates kind gestures.
Men will act like gentlemen when women act like ladies. Be modest in photos on social media, be humble. Don’t nag, argue, bicker, or play victim. Fill your home with love, laughter, dress up and take care of your body, make good food and have lots of sex. He will never stray. He will treasure you, women that love them selflessly are treasures they will hold dear for the rest of their lives.
Men just want to love you. Let one man do that. And show him how sweet you really are. ♥️
Ps: to the men, there are still ladies that want to love you. No one wants to grow old without experiencing that love you get once in a lifetime. We may be few in numbers, but no treasure is ever easy to find.
And to my husband, I will love you until my dying breath. ♥️
Women that still love men, why don’t we burn down the bandwagon?
I like this discussion regardless of how uncomfortable it may come across. I agree with you on some things and disagree on others. I agree that in many marriages women seemingly take advantage of the modern male making him share the housework and share the so called traditional female gender roles in order to be a modern household. It always bothered me a little to see some women (a small minority) take advantage of this and almost treat their husbands like a pet rather than a man. And her boy toy would be almost begging his wife not to scold him to do this right or that right etc. Of course this person was the sole bread winner working long hours while the wives are staying at home. I’ve seen this a few times and the two times I’ve seen this those marriages ended in divorce. But it demonstrates how things have flipped completely from where we were 20 30 or 40 plus years ago.
I am a Mom of 3 kids, I know what it takes to raise a family and work a full time job and maintain a relationship and even do it single without any help whatsoever. It takes work and it takes a ton of work. It really really sucks at times. And it makes you seriously question mens responsibilities towards children when they elect not to be around.
The question about marriage and our roles and how we go about defining the modern family is an interesting challenge. The way I look at this is from the eyes of my children. I have boys and girls. How does it hurt or pain me to see what they must deal with in their lives with their own family in the future. I feel that is challenging in different ways for both sexes. Both genders have tremendous challenges ahead.
So while it’s easy to point out one gender challenge over the other I’m comforted to know that my children are in a world where all things are possible. If they want something particular in a mate then the available fish in the sea may be smaller in that set group. But with a little patience there are people out there for everyone.
It would hurt me to see my daughter doing everything to cater to her husband to his every need.
Similarly it would hurt me to see my son being a pet to a wife that doesn’t consider his needs.
There are endless gender role scenarios that are too long to list...
But it truly goes both ways. A relationship is a two way street. Both parties will have to be working for each other. When it feels like work then find someone else. When it feels really great to work your ass off for the other person then it is a match. If you aren’t doing anything and the other person is doing everything then there’s a really good chance it will come to an end at some point.
The modern relationship is defined on peoples unique diversity. We are all different. We all have different wants. The true secret to success is to know who we are and what we want first. And then find a match for ourselves. Only then can we be truly happy.
So you’re a single mother? That sounds really hard. Women have had a tendency to be more selfish in a relationship, married or not. It may help to simply ask your significant other what their needs are, then ask yourself if you are willing to meet those needs. Both parties should do that. But to not have both parents present in children’s lives is detrimental, I’m sorry you have to see that happen. But how could you have saved your relationship?
That is the 100 million dollar question. Neither of us were happy. Without going into to many details we both were miserable and it made for an environment that wasn’t good for children. I agree with you totally that all kids should have two parents if at all possible. But it’s not always possible and more often then not this is the way of kids today and kids of the future most likely. It’s easy to suggest that we should fight to go back to a time of family values and traditions. But I believe this fight is a-tune to swimming up stream in a strong current. Finding opportunities to teach our kids how to value different circumstances and learn from them makes us a healthy society. I’ve come to embrace changes and the challenges. While not ideal there are always opportunities for learning both for me and my children. We have done well. And we have made our own family that is strong and in our own way something quite beautiful I think 😊
I see, without getting too personal what do you think was a huge reason you guys couldn’t be happy? 3 kids, there was a lot of love there at one point, for a while it sounds like. Did you both forget that you were still in a relationship and didn’t nurture it? I promise I’m not being condescending, I don’t mean to be intrusive or disrespectful. I want to know why you guys gave up?
It takes two to tango. When you stop dancing it just happens. I love your heart. Some people aren't going to stay together no matter how hard they try.
I am extremely passionate about men and women coming together to meet each others needs. I only want to help young ladies understand how simple it really is. ♥️ Women like you inspire me to stay steadfast in spreading these positive messages.
I wish women thought that way, but I went to a university where there were too many feminist who targeted me and accuse me for everything lol.. I didn’t even know them and beside that even thought the girls that I always been interested on have some of those qualities. The only issue I have with them is that they are so shy.
Then Covid came and ruined everything all my plans, so I decide to text them on Discord (the app) since there were groups on my university based on the major and club. Texted her no reply. I know she read it as she was so active, but no reply. I would go on, but to make it short. I can tell she likes me and she had made it so obvious only reason I didn’t made a move on her before covid was because I hate test (like when they are insecure and make a lie to see a reaction to confirm if you like them, I hate them because I’m tired of them) so I didn’t make a move and decide to do after spring break and bang classes got cancelled lol. Haven’t see her since then, by the way she might be a little feminist since she is left winger, but she doesn’t shown that toxic behavior that the extreme feminist does. by the way can I ask you for advice or your opinion? Lol
Sounds like a really stressful situation. As for the girl, the ones who are any good won’t test you and won’t left you on read. I’d be happy to answer any questions you have 😊
Im 22 nerdy virgin who's had to work hard in her studies to become a computer scientist with good pay, change religious views and appearance by losing weight, getting rid of bad acne, contact lenses, learning how to dress do makeup before hitting 20... but im still that same "fat" girl with acne who read books deep thinking nerdy anime freak with glasses thats so shy boys teased... so now when I see all these "bad boys" looking at me like walking meat I feel sick because there the same type of guys no substance and essentially man sluts who would of teased the teen me.
My point is why do I need a man? some may exist who are similar to me but knowing me I'd rather talk about theories that excite me but there not out there in public settings these men just live in depppths of the Internet and would never approach the me today because "i don't look the part" (yes, it happens all the time) or there to busy chasing there own nerdy dreams and careers.
Also societies obsession with sex is so primitive its sooo overdone with Simps, only fans and music today being porn there is more to existence that can interest you. On the other hand, since turning 22 I've noticed I can't out think my biology, children seem less of a hassle and I guess if I met a nerdy guy like me with a real sexy brain I'd consider loosing my virginity if I see myself spending the rest of my life with him but who am I kidding virgin male nerds/red pill/incel obsess over airheaded pretty girls that even they would never speak to.
Even then, the main purpose of life as a young person isn't serving others its a survival game, get an education/career, make money, drive, buy house, travel level up on your weaknesses inside and out before you hit 25 if you meet a teammate then great! If not so what? Chase your dreams its a race till 30 your universe shouldn't revolve around men or women your your own person, travel to see beauty of other cultures your the main protagonist of a fantasy book were all going to die one day id rather die successful laughing from my mansion than a single mother because I chose the wrong guy there's more at cost if your a women today who gives herself up to a man, single motherhood is high and divorce is high. Imagine trusting your whole existence to a guy💀 with you having nothing to bring to the table apart from a face and vagina even then he could leave you with kids if your brilliant? Don't be delusional amazing men are a needle in haystack or book/anime characters. Im not material, but its a dog eat dog world out there especially if your a girl you got to compromise with how shallow the world is to get by even if you don't want to. Do think I want to wear makeup? Overdo my hair? Look slim? Wear nice feminine clothes? No! I only do it because I learned the hard way people treat you better but apparently 🤷 thats all society care about if your a women no introspection on her intelligence or personality anyway... I'll just have to wait and see what cards I've been dealt with if I find a marriage type man then great if not ill stay away from men good thing I dont have to the chasing. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
I lost nearly half my body weight, I understand how people look at you different. It what does that matter if you are in a relationship with someone and want to show them love by being a good woman? There’s no shame in taking care of your body, your looks, working a full time job, cooking and cleaning. I’m proud to do it.
I do not trust men so far thats why. My experience as a young fat ugly shy teen with boys teasing me twice by asking me out bothering me then discussing my body in front of whole class or that guy who spoke about having sex graphically but im fat in class put me off. Now im older not depressed, but men are still the same only difference is I look "stereotypically attractive" they all just want sex. No one actually wants to get to know one another in this day and age, I want genuine connection I want to feel human again because under all this body I'm still the same "weirdo". To them its like 'why should I marry a girl when I can sleep around/buy whores get older get younger women half my age'?
I am confused. I want to like what you said, but I don't live in the 1950's, and it sounds like you would have found everything you want, if you lived then, and maybe did. I think women are AMAZING, and I ADORE women, and try to learn everything I can, to better understand, and why these shoes don't go with that dress, or why visible pantylines are like HORROR!! :) Everyone is different, and every woman, is special, and unique, in her own way, and what she likes, wants and needs. Same with men. Times have changed, but not all people have changed with the times. . . Personally, I can't imagine being with any lady, that didn't have her own plan, for her life, and a career! She is solid, confident, in WHO "SHE" is, and doesn't NEED a man, to "complete" her! She is AMAZING, just as she is, and how she is living her life!!! But, she is open to someone, some special guy, maybe, that can share parts of his life, also, good, as he is, with a career, and confident. Not like you 'complete' each other, as you are already both, Good, as you are. More like someone that brings something new, different, and interesting, to share, as she does, and together, you are BETTER, together, and GREAT, TOGETHER, rather than just being "Good" as you were.
This is a common misconception, these values are not outdated. They aren’t misogynistic. I do have a job, I also have a duty to myself and I honor my husband and my home by taking care of them ♥️ to be honest I kind of view myself as a kick ass woman. I’m proud of my husband, I’m happy to be alive. I’m happy to love selflessly.
you know... I feel bad for women who don't realize this, because the happiness that can be found once you do is to just fill your life with such joy and fulfillment, that's truly so deep and powerful and unique to being a real woman. <3 femininity is something to be cherished, forever. we'll never be happy till we be ourselves, really! I'm so happy to have found your story... with your husband, a gem of a gem of a guy, and that weight loss, all the love and the way it fits together... what a roll model you are. :) thanks for the motivation... really, I won't forget.
The fact that you have taken the time to read my posts about very personal journeys and thoughts, really speaks to the amazing person you are ♥️ thank you for saying all of that! My hope is that someday more women will feel the urge to be okay with falling in love with being lovers and nurturers, while taking care of themselves in the process. You’re so amazing and appreciated!
This sounds depressing for the woman and pretty much guilts her. Its saying do all you can to make him happy. If he's not happy your not doing enough. Sounds slavelike and onesided.. happiness should be mutual, not based on a role. Because if it is, your putting expectations and limitations on what women can do. if you are from this decade you'll notice that women work these days. Women support themselves. They pay for their own housing, they pay their own bills. Sometimes they can become the breadwinner. Sometimes its split in half. This isn't leave it to Beaver days. Should we both put in effort for each other? To look good and be faithful? Definitely! But the keyword is both. If women have to be smiley and wear sundresses everyday with a plate of turkey at the table everyday with the kids all happy and saying "gee whiz ma" and "Jiminy crickets", men should be held to those same standards.
It doesn't sound like a fair trade off. When women are expected and pressured to fulfill certain roles, when it doesn't apply to all women and not all women's lifestyles its not a fair game. I'm implying that if women are held to high standards than men should too. But they're not. Not all men could fulfill the provider roles even though im sure society pressures them to. Not everyones lifestyle can fit that mold.
You think men don't get pressured and they aren't held to a high standard? Bullshit, men are and have always been held to a higher standard than women.
@StunningANDbrave re-read what i wrote, I'm saying that men do get pressured. But no one calls them lowlifes the same way slut and whore is normalized for women. Slut is to a woman when she does anything to offend a guy. Even sleep with another guy. Slut and whore is much more casually thrown around around.
"I'm implying that if women are held to high standards than men should too. But they're not." This is what you said. What world do you live in where you think men don't get called low life's and shamed for be crappy providers? They get called cheap, made fun of, and shamed by both men and women. Especially those dudes you're referring to that can't properly fill the providers role. As for slut and whore being normalized that is because far too many women are actually being sluts and whores by sleeping with a crap ton of dudes, and posting half baked pics on social media
@StunningANDbrave "As for slut and whore being normalized that is because far too many women are actually being sluts and whores by sleeping with a crap ton of dudes, and posting half baked pics on social media" well that just shows your ignorance. As if guys don't do the same? But women are the sluts? Okay sure... Did I say they didn't called that? I said they DO have pressures of society but no one calls them out on it as much as they do with women sleeping with lots of partners. Its even illegal in some countries to have multiple partners. Women can die for doing what men can so obviously be free to do in some countries. And yet, if guys are lowlifes they just get a smack on the back of the hand. Its not the same.
Your right about few in number. These women you speak of are amazing women that are like unicorns. The points you made are definitely an issue but before that a few things need fixed. Why should we commit with all the sex free out there. Why should we risk ourselves when in some countries it’s actually a hate crime to give women unwanted attention (in the UK). Here in the states #metoo is a thing. Fake rape claims are treated as fact and men are ostracized losing job, friends, family, even their future. Divorce leads to financial ruin for men and children are generally awarded to the woman.
The law needs changed because women as a whole can’t be trusted.
I hear what you are saying, my intention here is to help young women see just how easy it can be to live in a relationship where both partners give their best for each other. How there is absolutely nothing wrong with being sweet and feminine, and men in fact value it more than the feminist types, or women that are trashy. My goal is to hopefully see an increase in respect between the sexes and an increase in the amount of traditional young women.
The only way to do that is to make people believe it was their idea... you can’t change minds without the support of the media... and it’s controlled by the enemy. Social media can do the same thing but lack of accountability just leads to people being more disturbed online...
The only alternative is having many kids and teaching them right.. but the real men are working to keep the city’s power running, the roofs on the houses, the trash running properly... while the women chase these fools they think are men that just use and abuse them.
This is men’s fault. They were to promiscuous and have women too much power. I’m not a misogynist but one side is meant to lead while the other follows. One leader is always more efficient then two. Is not always the men that deserve to lead either. Sometimes women have better leader sense than men. But these women while being a minority could still easily find a man if they wanted.
This is where women take responsibility... this feminism movement wants to fight men for power and men don’t bow out we fight power with power. Yay mutual destruction! Stop giving it up to Chad and Tyrone and start holding out. Sex has tremendous value to men more than just cash. Well pay is honor, respect, chivalry, kindness, and even commitment... you cheapen yourselves by just giving it up.
After the marriage I endured , then ended , it was far more conflict for me than being deployed on operations with the British Army. No bitterness to women , have a teen daughter , even the thought of " dating " now is a big no now , peace is far more important to me now , I am far happier single. Also , I'm a single dad , there are far more available men than women on the " dating market " , so stand no chance , even if I wanted to.
" women that don’t have these values, get their act together" I don't think they ever will , my teen daughter has even told me , without prompting , that girls , in the " education " ( indoctrination more like ) system are elevated , and boys are demonized , also girls / women ( esp young women in Cultural Marxist Indoctrination Centres ( formerly universities ) are influenced to look down on the human male. They target the more emotional female mind first , leading to a predictable male backlash... all by design. This is why the vast majority of Western women are negative towards men to some degree , I estimate around 20-25% of women full on hate men , & predictably , join the feminists.
Thank you very much! This is why I am speaking out ♥️ more women need to hear our men say they feel sad and neglected, and more women need to be willing to hear them.
Exactly this. I have a reputation of being a huge dick, player, fuck boy, mean, asshole etc. But once in awhile i meet an actual lady and i treat her like a princess and everyone i know gets so confused and can't understand it. Its simple i treat a lady like a lady and i treat a nasty woman like a nasty woman. Seems straightforward to me.
Thank you so much for writing this! I wish more women felt the same way you do. It's gotten pretty awful out there trying to find a woman who embraces and brings forth the divine feminine that most men so desperately desire. And who herself worships the divine masculine in us and desires to bring it forth rather than moaning endlessly about "patriarchy" and "oppression." It makes me especially sad when women get bullied by the modern incarnation of feminists to suppress their nature, to celebrate being grotesque instead of beautiful. Wiping out the feminine from woman-kind is no way to advance the cause of women. It also makes me shake my head to see the guys who think that by denying their masculinity they'll have a better chance with girls. In reality it just leads to girls shunning them for their uselessness.
Burning down the bandwagon sounds like a VERY good idea!
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Only you lose moraled American women have this problem. You seemed to have forgotten what feminism actually is and are mostly psycho social activist types.
Ever grown up in a country where you can be aborted just for being female? Did you have to fight to go to school like your brother? Was your worth in just being married off like some brood mare? Like wanting to do something in your life is some cute hobby.
Women in other contries are fighting a battle and you're here wondering if your tits and nipples should be free hanging in the air.
Feminism was about equality not some tyrannical female rule or superiority.
Your post is not related to speaking about bringing back selfless love into marriage and relationships. I’m only addressing the women, however I did say that there is a respect trade off. My husband does so much for me. I’m not oppressed by choosing to love him the way I do. ♥️
I've seen this kind of argument before. fist and second wave femenism was the only kind that has benefited society in any meaningful way and it's debatable weather or not the changes that happened because of it would or would not have been something that happened anyways as people were sick of the way it was. And no. Femenism is not about equality, it's always been about giving women more freedoms which they got and deserved, 3rd, and 4th wave femenism is unnecessary and brewing a bunch of hate and bullshit.
I am sorry. I was speaking from a place of anger and frustration with constantly being poked and prodded to be a slogan shouting SJW. My beliefs on marriage and men was being attacked by my own friend.. And I jumped to reacting to something completely tangential.. I do believe in being selfless with each other. Respecting each other and committing for the long term. I beleive strongly in being present for each other and doing the little intuitive things for each other. I thrive in such relationships. There is nurturer inside me that is just waiting to be able to pour out all the affection I'm feeling for my spouse and also wanting to be cherished and nurtured in return.
Thank you for owning that! Sometimes a little reminder is all we need as women to let that wall down and love like we want to deep inside ♥️. It is such a peaceful place to be when we can show love to each other in ways others simply can’t because they aren’t in that position. The balance is so beautiful.
I think the walls come down when there is deep trust and a knowledge at the core, that you're committing to each other with love and respect and you're also committing to growth together.
It's never about woman vs man. If that's the kind of defensive, "I'm attacked" therefore I will lash out, kind of feeling thats present in a relationship, then at the slightest hint of trouble or a disagreement its going to flare up in to an angry "I must defend myself" i. e man vs woman situation.
I'm sorry I lashed out. It wasn't directed at you. Just me reacting to some uncomfortable toxic things my friend had just said about men. I think I'm going to be dropping her.
My job is not to prove to a man that I am worthy of marriage. My job is not to fulfill his ego, remove his insecurities, or make him feel whole.
I'm an individual and I don't navigate my life with the sole purpose of making men happy. That doesn't mean I'm not going to try and support the men in my life; but I won't sacrifice myself in the process. That doesn't mean I won't do things for the man I love; but I won't do it at the cost of my own happiness and sucess. That doesn't mean I won't do things like cook, clean, or soothe; because those things aren't personally tied to my gender.
If me choosing myself, my goals, and my life makes a man not want to marry me? That's fine in my books
So, going out of your way to make sure you’re being the best version of yourself and taking care of your husband is inconvenient? Making my husband relaxed and happy brings peace to our home, as well as happiness and a sense of accomplishment. Selfless love is the most genuine.
Your perception is warped. Everything you mention here makes you sound like a selfish person. Why would anyone man or woman want to get involved with someone that is only concerned with themselves. That isn't even a relationship.
My perception isn't warped, but anybody who doesn't care about thesemlves will have next to nothing to give anyone. Often, if not always, the person who dedicates their lives to pleasing someone else does so because they have no sense of self. Their identity is tied to another person, they have little to no identity or personal agenda. Their existence is to please.
For me, personally, I lived in a dynamic where I was abused into having the belief that my only worth came from serving others. I realized later that having my own goals and identity actually made it possible for me to not just give more to myself, but to others. Partners, colleagues, friends, family - but I personally refuse to make my life solely about pleasing some other person with no independence of my own.
Do what you like, and if you think having individuality and valuing yourself detracts from a relationship, I feel sad for the both of you.
I have my own hobbies I like to do for me, I workout nearly everyday. I play guitar and write music/sing. I take time for myself, and I do those things for my husband quite happily. He has made my life better in so many ways, as I have also made his life better. That’s love. Love comes with sacrificing sometimes, but I am no victim. I love the peace and balance we have in our relationship. It’s beautiful, and I know that we will always treasure each other and be each others sanctuary. ♥️
You got with a shitty dude, you admit yourself you were abused. I don't agree with having only one person pleasing the other. It should be both, I give her just as much back as she gives me and am happy to do it. You deserved better in that relationship.
Wrong. Men don't want to marry precisely because of women like you, the ones who think that sitting at home and washing dishes here and there is enough of a contribution to a relationship, while they expect everything of actual effort and value to be provided by the man.
The kind of men you describe will marry you in a heartbeat, they have no issues with marriage and traditional lifestyles.
Oh? Well, if you read everything I wrote you would see that I do contribute more to the home than cooking and cleaning. I work a full time job as well, and I get paid equal to my husband per hour. These traditional duties that I take on are also responsibilities that I believe are appreciated and valued. ♥️ have a great day.
I'm giving you a follow ASAP, you are definitely a smart man and I wish you find true love with a real valuable woman one day, not these pick me girls who turn out to be the biggest mistake you ever made, after you see who she truly is. Women like her are usually very horrible women and men who cannot see it need to reevaluate themselves. She is the same type of woman who makes a man never want to marry again after she has divorced him and take everything, due to spending years being a shape shifter, she is emotionally manipulative, such a nasty soul sucking energy I can sense coming from her.
Oh look at me, I kiss up, take men's side, look down on other women who don't want to stay home and not work because I am submissive. I do the bear minimum but I use my kiss up behavior to make my husband afraid to voice his opinion on anything I am actually doing wrong, because he'll fear displeasing me since I try so hard. She is the devil, just look at her face girl bye.
I don’t need any men to pick me, I’m happily married. We are both successful. We both support each other. I do work full time, and I do maintain our home and my appearance. Why are you being evil towards me? Because I love my husband? Because I think women should care about meeting the needs of their husbands as well as he meets his wife’s? Let’s be real, who hurt you?
Very nice and very true. My wife is the more traditional type, and she's a conservative which is fantastic to me. I dont know what i would do without her.
I agree. I'm fully with women having the choice to do what they wish, as long as those same women don't shame others for wanting to be more traditional.
It is the responsibility of women to keep these traditions alive by teaching other young women. This way of life should never die, or be silenced. Hopefully some day there will be more treasure for men to cherish than broken toys.
I think I missed my chance She was great in every way you describe but she had to move to Poland I guess once Covid is (hopefully) over and I can do it justice I'll book a trip out there if I don't get her then I can drink my body weight in Zubrówka as a consolation prize
Very good post sweetheart. You are cherished and loved and more men deserve to experience the happiness and calm a woman like you provides in a relationship/marriage.
I mean if that sort of dynamic works between you two all the power to you. But I think it's unnecessary to shame people for living their life in another way. I want a partner that changes somebody who makes me grow as a person. What you described seems booring to me. So I say let people have the types of relationships they want throw aways stupid ideals about the perfect relationship and create the one you want with a person that fits you.
I think she’s stupid too for wanting to give up her rights. Some of these guys don’t think women should even be able to vote. So of course, they are all too happy to agree with her. Now I will say- I HATE certain feminists. However, old school feminism is fine. Why piss on them? Good women should never stop fighting to have the same privileges and rights as men in their respective countries.
I would say rhis post is 95% right and kudos to you. But there's a small problem. Women chose the nuclear option 50 years ago with feminism. Was society perfect before? No! But along with equality comes unintended consequences. Women can be bread winners to but that money has to come from somewhere. It certainly isn't going to come from the 1%. So it gets taken from men. Si now men are expected to provide more but are paid less.
Good on you lady. Now if we can only make rhis spread. Guys need to be a mommy at times to. That means cooking and cleaning changing diapers. It's called a PARTNERSHIP for a reason. It's what's good for the family unit.
Although, I would say mommy is not the right word. He is the head of the household, and a husband. Someday he will be a father, but never mommy. That’s my title 😉 @StunningANDbrave
I'm sorry you feel that way I could be one of those men that women you would fall in love with but like you said with men are so full of crap they're hypocrites their standards are way too high so we as men are going to chase something that's just going to be unreachable and pointless to try so as a man I will be little a female if they make me feel any less of a man
Never forget that you can be that man for a good woman, all you have to do is find her. It’s a bloody battle to find someone right for you, but you have to be willing to fight it to find that person.
I'm sorry to say but I'm not looking anymore it's too damn difficult standards are way too high on every section of what female finds desirable in a guy females need to bring it down a little bit so they can find a real good man I'll stay single and a virgin until the day I died at 77
Well.. some of that was pretty gross. How about you have your relationship how you want to and you don't get so mad at other people for not following society's gender roles when it isn't how they want to live their life?
@luckyinloveandlife ""doing the little things'? No I meant stuff like gender roles. Spending your whole life doing something because society decided you should is not just "doing the little things".
I am entitled? I am in fact entitled to not do what society decides I should do because of gender.
"You’re entitled", "’m not changing my mind", you sound more entitled to me lol.
How do you believe these gender roles came to be? Women did those things instinctively. It’s engrained in women. Gender roles work better. But you have to be the right woman, for the right man. The man needs to be man enough to guide you and provide for your family. It’s beautiful if you let it happen. But chances are you won’t ever experience it in your lifetime, and you’ll be so brainwashed by feminist thought processes that you won’t understand why it NEVER works. Wise up before you end up 35 and single.
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