My boyfriends past female friend is obsessed with him and has been calling him even though he blocked her, I’m concerned for safety?

[Anonymous]

So my new boyfriend used to live with his female friend who he used to have sexual relations with, as apparently she kept walking around naked and tempting him etc. He said that she was quite obsessed with him.

Now he lives in his own place. He has her blocked, but she still attempts to call him through different numbers or accounts on Facebook etc. She also knows his current address. I’m worried if she somehow finds out about me she will get angry and I’m kind of worried about my safety.

Am I overreacting? If not, how can I keep protected?

[Anonymous]

She tempted him? lol he wanted her that’s why he had a sexual relationship with her. There’s your sign right there that’s likely more to this than what he’s telling you. There usually is. He’s accusing her of all these things and yet he did have a sexual relationship with her out of free will and now he doesn’t own up to that but tries to make himself some sort of victim of seduction. My ex told his new girlfriend I was obsessed with him too and he blocked me and stuff but really he kept contacting me too behind her back but then pretended to her like I was a crazy person, he was scared of me, I was stalking him, he wanted nothing to do with me and what not. All while sometimes messaging me a a few hours before talking about missing me and wanting to meet up. Don’t be dumb and just trust him because he’s you boyfriend. Boyfriends sometimes lie or keep essential information hidden you know.

[Asker]

Yes, I’m pretty worried about it

[verybusyguy]

1. If she don't know about you yet that's a red flag right away for your boyfriend
2. She tempted him and he was having fun then why did he left her ( I think you are feed lies )

3. If she is trying to contact him , just contact her straight a woman to woman and ask her problem , may be you will know something that you should've know before

[HappyWoman34]

It sounds like there might be more going on here than he’s telling you.

[Asker]

Like what for example? I’m pretty worried about this

[HappyWoman34]

Like he’s hiding something with you