Should you ask for a woman's number/contact after getting to know each other for a while?

[Buffotine1996]

Sp you meet a girl at a store or farmers market and you're able to small talk for a bit and see each other every once or twice a week and its Bern a while and is friendly, would that be afterwards appropriate to ask for contact after knowing each other for a while?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, I think after talking to her a few times over a period of weeks, it would be appropriate to ask for her number. Here are a few tips:

- The next time you chat with her, let the conversation flow naturally like usual. Bring up something you talked about before so she knows you listened.

- Towards the end of your talk, say something like "Hey, it's been really cool chatting with you every time I'm here. I was wondering if maybe we could keep in touch?"

- Have your phone ready so if she says sure, you can smoothly offer it for her to put her number in. Don't put her on the spot by demanding she give it verbally.

- Make it casual and low pressure by saying you thought you'd ask in case she wants to meet up for coffee sometime to keep talking.

- If she hesitates, don't force it - just say no problem, enjoy the rest of your day. You laid the offer out there respectfully.

- She might not be interested romantically but still say yes as a friendly chat. Either way you've taken a chance!

Just play it cool and let the conversation flow naturally. After some rapport you've earned the right to politely ask in my opinion. Go for it dude!

[Angxl3120]

Do you know her name? If you do first ill suggest you ask for any of her socials , if she says yes. Then its good. But before that give her a non creepy compliment, like "you're looking really pretty today" or something and just say "i know you hear that everyday" thats the most basic but works really well. Then look if she's blushing or just smiling. If she's blushing go for her number, if she's smiling just go for her social

[Monalisa77]

I was told on here people don't say socials 😂