Sad. Why does every girl I like have a boyfriend, waiting for marriage, doesn't like me?

[Anonymous]

I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. I'm getting tired of it.

I look good (girls and guys compliment me), I hope I have a nice personality, but I still suck when it comes to getting a girlfriend.

What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that really sucks dude. I know how much it can sting when every girl you like is already taken. But don't give up hope! A few thoughts:

- Don't take it personally. It's not a reflection on you. Sometimes timing is just off and it's nobody's fault.

- Put yourself out there more. If you want to meet available girls, you gotta put in the effort to meet more girls in general through socializing, taking a class, joining a club, asking mutual friends to set you up, etc. Quantity increases your chances.

- Work on your confidence. Believe that you deserve an awesome girl. Don't be too available - stay busy with your own hobbies/interests. Mysterious is attractive!

- Try dating apps too. Yeah it can feel shallow but at least you know the girls are single. Go on some casual dates, have fun, don't take it too seriously yet.

- Be patient. I know it's frustrating but pushing won't help. The right girl will come around. Focus on being a cool, fun version of yourself in the meantime.

Chin up man - high school can suck for dating but it gets way better after. Just keep putting yourself out there. Your time will come! Hang in there.

[Nirmroth]

Hard to tell if we know only the bare minimum about you.
How do you flirt or act with girls? Are you really that groomed and kind person like you make yourself to be?

Could simply be unlucky yet

[Asker]

probably not, but I think that people like my company.

[Nirmroth]

Just dont want to fuck you

[Dkorbtfb]

Be a provider

[Asker]

what?

[Dkorbtfb]

Give women things of value