Why would a girl suddenly start acting cocky and dressing sexy when she used to wear only baggy clothes?

[Anonymous]

Does it indicate she has a fling with a coworker? I know it is none of my business but tbh it it pretty disappointing considering the fact that everybody in my department is married with kids

[_Maya_]

It's possible that is what is going on. It also could be that she decided she wanted to change up her look. Maybe it was a confidence booster to dress a little more sexier. I don't get it for work purposes though. That seems like an odd change. So you might be right that she is trying to get someone's attention at work. If they are all married you are also right that it is pretty messed up to do assuming she knows they are all married.

[Asker]

yeah but what makes me wonder is why she acts suddenly more confident. to me that looks like someone already flirted with her and now she wants to take escalate things. she is a working student like me and i feel like she is interested in my supervisor who she never works with and has acutally no business talking to. she inquired about his academic backround and never does this with anyone else. and when we had a team meeting she passed me and the other students to walk beside him and sit next to him flaunting her push up bra. its weird

[Asker]

I've never seen any woman in this building wearing short skirts in winter. i can also tell that she is not used to dressing like this because the items she wears look weird together

[_Maya_]

Definitely sounds like she is trying to get noticed. Skirts in winter is weird.

[Asker]

yeah. the funny thing is she herself mentioned to me that day that it is cold outside. but i think she wouldn't have done it if the guy wouldn't have flirted with her. when i was in the meeting where she sat next to him he didn't engage with her but i could see that under the table he extended his leg very far in her direction like he was trying to play footsies and he changed positons in his chair as if he was nervous. but maybe im reading too much into it. he oftentimes sits like this with his leg I don't know. what do you think? this guy is acutally flirty with all women except me so maybe she reads too much into his behaviour

[Asker]

so you think she likely had sex with a coworker?

[_Maya_]

I don't think it necessarily means that. I think she is trying to get someone's attention.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah good chance, but not necessarily at/from work. She could be meeting the side piece from the gym/corner store/running circle/whatever. Don't assume it's a coworker. Where's she going AFTER work?