I have a lady I hired to help with shopping, chores, laundry, etc. The problem is she is always a grouch! Like she's mad at me. It's making me sick?

[sage2021]

One thing about me is I am usually smiling. 😄 A couple of years ago when COVID hit is when I hired her. She was nice back then, but not anymore. I cringe around her because she makes me feel like I did something wrong and she's pissed off at me. When I ask her if I've done anything wrong, she said if you did, I'd tell you.
But her mood is getting to be unbearable. I don't know how to act around her anymore - because I am a friendly person.
Any advice besides getting a new helper? That is not an option because there aren't any! So, please don't say that is an option.
Thank you for your suggestions 😔

[FunkyMonkee]

I was just watching an episode of The Beverly Hillbillies yesterday where they hired a maid to clean up the house so granny didn't have to do it all. The maid turned out to be a severe bitch that hardly did any work at all!! They fired her ass!!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Xo_-soULAz0

[Tim2nice]

It’s time to say goodbye to her and hire someone else. You shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable in your own home

[NathanDavis]

try to find someone with references... those are the usually the best workers

[exitseven]

can you find her a boyfriend. Maybe a little action will sweeten her up/

[sage2021]

@exitseven
Funny you should say that. She was going after mine until he died and their plans fell through. I'm sure he handed off the 5 thousand dollars he stole from me and had her hold on to it right after he stole it. Probably within hours of stealing the last chunk of my money he died.
He is probably in hell watching porn and waiting for her as she watches it too. 👿

[sage2021]

@exitseven
P. S. she's married

[exitseven]

@sage2021 You need to get rid of her before she attacks you with a machete or something.

[Andres77]

Are you under any obligation to keep her find someone else, fire her.

[katiesmuff]

Should be fairly easy to replace her!

[Fuentes]

Fire her lol get a new person