Do girls really care about feelings or more about looks?

[M1000]

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It seems like no matter how I am to females they don’t feel as I do for them!

[SueShe]

To me personally, looks are secondary and are totally and absolutely unimportant.

the reason is that I place a much higher importance on the intellect, the character and overall general compatibility with me on those levels.

A person that has to rely solely on his looks rather than on what is is capable of doing in life is setting his priorities wrong.

Looks are nice but what will they be when he is 60+? They will have faded and he is only an empty shell that has no content because all that counted was the looks.

A person that cultivates his intellect and prioritizes a good character will never fade like a flower. This spirit of his will remain at age 60+. On the short as well as long term,
there is a much higher gain for anyone to go for someone that cultivates a high intellect and keeps that spirit alive.

Give me an overweight and ugly looking guy that has the ability to make me laugh and challenges me mentally and has a good chemistry over a boy that places his energy on
looking good but has only hay in the brain.

And when I say ugly looking guy, this is relative because what sounds negative to one may sound good for another person.

[Tigerress]

Both equally
People who say we don't care about looks are deluded and naive

[molonski2]

Far more about looks I believe , other factors come into it , ability to provide , generally no matter what they say they don't like " Nancy Boys " , guys have to be prepared , to be a man to go for it , and to know how to make money , they need to be assertive , and proud.

[Iron_Man]

Both

[In_Trance]

depends on the girl