Do you think if you can’t stop thinking about someone there’s something there or it’s obsession?

[Anonymous]

I think I’m just a bit obsessed how can I like someone I don’t know well

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, it's tough to say for sure from where I'm standin'. Could be a little bit of both maybe.

On one hand, if they're constantly on your mind, there's obviously SOME kinda connection or attraction there, feel me? Like your brain ain't focusin' on them for no reason.

But also, thinkin' about someone all the time who you barely know is kind of in obsession territory, ya know? Cuz how can you REALLY like em if you ain't spent real time gettin' to KNOW em?

I'd say chill on it for a bit. Try to busy yourself with other stuff so you ain't dwellin' on it so much. If you find you still feel drawn to 'em after awhile, maybe it's worth shootin' your shot, see what's what.

But don't put all your eggs in one basket yet either. Get to knowin' em first before decidin' how you feel 100%. Give it time to develop naturally. Otherwise it ain't really real, more like a fantasy, feel me?

Keep it casual, don't overthink, and see what happens. No need to stress! Ease into it and let things unfold however they're s'posed to.

[Coolcow245]

I’m a maladaptive daydreamer. I’ve dated people but not in real life. I daydream and fantasize about scenarios. I used to be obsessed with someone recently who stung me like a bee. It was a hard way of removing the filter I was seeing him through. I thought I was obsessed with this person until I found out their social medias and also they treated me with no compassion. The social media snapped me out of my fantasies and made me see him for who he is. You may not like him because you don’t know who he truly is. You could just be intrigued and a day dreaming lover girl. Find out about him first. I don’t care how? You could stalk him online or talk to him but once you get to truly know him, the obsession might wear off. You could just be curious

[Asker]

He doesn’t have social media

[Coolcow245]

R u sure? It’s 2023. Do you at least know his address, or his full name, or his age too. You can Google his name and if you don’t know his name you can find if by entering his address on Google to see who lives there. If you google his name something should show up. If you know his age and location you can find him on tinder by going close to his location and filtering your tinder to his age.

[Asker]

Pretty sure. I wonder why he’s so anti social.

[Coolcow245]

Hm I think he’s lying. Well that or how old is him

[Asker]

30s. I couldn’t find him on Instagram or Facebook

[Coolcow245]

I’m 21 and I had an obsession with someone in their 30’s too. I didn’t know his name but I used his address. Try the tinder thing. You might see him on there. That’s what I did.

[Coolcow245]

Mine doesn’t have instagram but I found his old twitter. Do you know anyone associated with him because you can find him through them

[Asker]

Can I message you? Have a quick question

[Coolcow245]

Yeah sure

[Asker]

Okay I followed you please follow me back

[Jmmmfi4]

I've BEEN DEALING WITH THIS FOR 7 YEARS

[ChicoFromThe305]

Shit happens