Isn’t life kind of funny?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Just got a call from my old friend, she wants to visit me and she misses me a lot. I miss her too. 10 months ago we were partying hard, we had no idea she would be 6 months pregnant and I would have my leg broken for now.

She was sending me videos of us from 10 months ago, dancing wild, dancing on top of the bar table with high heels and poured champagne all around and just having a really good time.

I wonder how’s it possible I didn’t break my leg, while dancing wild on those high heels and I broke it when I was just RACING?

It’s kind of funny to me.

[NathanDavis]

that's like me in sports... the dozens of times in which people did step on my ankles during sports... and then I got up just fine

but then I miss I step at a stupid stair... and I'm out for the weekend with a stupid strain...

[DJB72]

Yep. It's fucking hilarious.

🤣🤣🤣

If anyone had told me at 21 that age 51 I'd have a 5 year old son and only one leg I'd probably have been in a nut house years ago. I had plans to retire at 50, not join the PTA...

[JosyJosy]

I get that whenever I doubt myself at something I've done a thousand times. Then I get hurt.

[Kelly6]

to me it's kind of sad

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I find it a bit amusing.

[RingOfFire]

They say that if you are able to find breaking your leg funny, that the world is your oyster. Or something like that.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you 🤭

[CalmUntilAbused]

For me, it would be funny if it wasn't depressing. Basically, if something doesn't go wrong, it means there will be a time when it will hurt more if it goes wrong.

[molonski2]

This is the woman who really wanted to be pregnant , and was going to marry that poor guy? Visa related.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, that’s her… I am not going to be close friends with her anymore, but she has told me she really misses me and wants to see me, so I can’t reject her. She has been asking to meet her for the last 2-3 months.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Especially now that she’s pregnant, I don’t want to be a bad person.

[molonski2]

oh yeah , you have to see her though , and although she probably did the wrong thing she sounds like a great character hahahaha

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, she didn’t do any harm to me, I can’t ditch her when she’s pregnant and so willing to see me. I told her she can come over and she was very happy. I kind of missed her too…

[molonski2]

Can understand , all good things in moderation , plus she can't exactly play up now , you can rub oil into her belly :)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, plus she often tells me that the fun we had together has never happened to her nor before me nor after me and I feel the same, we were having great fun together. She took advantage of me in a way that she overstayed with me for too long to the point that she was no longer leaving, but now she lives with her husband and I don’t think she’ll want to overstay with me forever 😂

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What makes it very hard for me to trust her again though is that, my ex has done something similar to what she has done to her husband and I remember I was very stressed about it.

As I was wishing to take things slow and not hurry getting married and having a child with my ex, at some point, I wasn’t taking birth control pills and he knew that perfectly well, so I always asked him to wear a condom, one day he lied to me about it and he promised me he wouldn’t ejaculate inside, he did though and then he told me, he actually wanted us to have a child and that he wanted us to marry and he did it on purpose…

I was very confused and stressed and asked her to quickly order morning after pill for me and I took it asap, because I was about 24 and I wasn’t ready for pregnancy.

I feel like he wanted to kind of entrap me, because he was so insecure, I would leave.

It caused me to feel very upset but I forgave him because I loved him and I thought maybe it was my fault.

Now though I think it was very wrong of him and it makes me feel bad that she has done something similar to someone else.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I feel like it’s so abusive of my trust and to my right to decide when I want to have a child and not, deciding it for me - it’s very wrong. And I feel like how can I trust a person like that. I already knew one person like her and he ended up hurting me. I seem to attract those.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think reproductive coercion is abuse and a crime, as I felt upset my ex tried that to kind of entrap me, I feel just as upset to be somehow connected to that old “friend” of mine.

I don’t know though… She has been really wanting to meet me. I have mixed feelings.

[soe11]

To me the life is all about fun and enjoyment.

[RandomUser1000]

Life can be strange and funny and all sorts of things. What kind of racing did you do when you broke your leg?

[robhazelnut]

Without surprises, the life process would be dull.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not really. Life is random and unpredictable.

[Guido]

Rekindling a friendship can be a good thing. Hope it goes well.

[exitseven]

yeah, life is funny though not always funny HaHa.

[Nice222]

Yeah life can be a wild ride. Enjoy it.

[Avaery]

it can be a certain times