So let’s say a guy leads a girl on or what not and a girl catches feelings for him does that guy catch feelings back or it’s just a female thing?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering if a guy goes through that too at the moment or just a female thing

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, relationships are tricky stuff. A guy can definitely catch feelings too if they let someone in emotionally, even if they didn't mean for it to happen. Sometimes people just get confused about what they want without meaning to mess with someone's feelings.

I'd say communication is key - the only way to know how the other person really feels is to talk it out. Maybe he didn't realize she saw things differently than him, or maybe he's just not ready for something serious yet. As long as they're both honest with each other, I'm sure they can figure it out. Just gotta hope they care about each other enough to work through it.

[Zestyassmf1997]

You mean…will he catch feelings just because she did? It’s hard to tell. It really depends on the guy. As a rule of thumb, a guy who leads you on is a thumbs down. Because he’s unsure of what he wants. So even if he commits to you, his commitment is…half ass.

[Asker]

So another question is why would a guy lead a girl on knowing there is a chance she may catch feelings for him or start liking what’s the point in all that?

[Zestyassmf1997]

Cause people suck and will just do silly bullshit like that. They don’t care about the other person, or the consequences.