Do you think most beautiful women are shy and unfriendly or is it the opposite?

[Blacksnake285]

[blueonblack22]

Well they literally get told 5+ times a day they are beautiful. They both have extreme privileges and some major challenges due to their looks.

Privileges

• They are literally guaranteed at least a semi decent and semi attractive man. They have put absolutely zero effort and risk into dating. All they have to do is not be completely insane and say yes or no. That’s it. Getting a decent boyfriend and/or husband is literally a 100% guarantee for them.
• They can rely exclusively on their looks for financial support. They can model on IG, do OF, find sugar daddies and not do any real work.
• They can literally get away with murder if they are criminally inclined. School teachers are less likely to discipline them for misbehavior. Law enforcement is softer on then (there are hard statistics to back this up).
• I notice attractive women also get more “second chances” for bullshit behavior including cheating.
• They can literally get laid almost any time they want

Drawbacks

• They are targets for aggressive stalkers and true creeps. Besides just being stared or overhearing comments they got people touching them or worse. I also notice that lesbian and bi women are much more aggressive with attractive women. Women don’t get creep shamed the same way men do (especially nowadays). I remember my ex girlfriend was being aggressively hit on by a lesbian right in front of me. The other woman didn’t touch her but if she did I would have stepped in.
• If they are intelligent and/or hard working they aren’t taken seriously. People assume they rely on their looks to get by.
• They deal with a lot of jealousy and backstabbing from other women.
• Attractive women have a harder time with aging and adjusting to the fact they turning fewer heads. I’m noticing women in their 30s and 40s who are very insecure and bitchy because they don’t have the same leeway with men they once did in their 20s. Some of them think acting bitchy and difficult makes them “feel younger” or some crap. They thought the attention would never go away. These once attractive women are always the first to creep shame older men for noticing younger women.

[blueonblack22]

I also want to comment that attractive men also have privileges and challenges. But no man can rely on his looks to survive in life and to guarantee getting a girlfriend and/or wife. He gets a head start and a lot more leeway to take romantic risks. Women rarely creep shame very attractive men no matter how inappropriate he acts. But he is NOT equivalent to an attractive women. Not even close. More is expected out of him.

I know because in my physical prime I was told I was “cute and handsome” all the time by women. But that didn’t guarantee me anything. I still was expected to take action and have at least some game.

[Kelley1]

They are not shy but people are hitting on them all the time; even more so, if they are friendly.

[blueonblack22]

@Kelley1 yes it is true the entire world reacts to them differently. They literally live in a different reality.

Also I know a few women who are aging former hotties. They are usually the meanest and bitchiest “Karen types” women. It also drives them nuts when a man in his 30s/40s noticed or dates a younger woman in her 20s. They are the first to throw shade at the man.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t think physical appearance is what determines who someone is alone. It can give you clues and ideas. But you know the saying don’t judge a book by it’s over.

Some people are nice and others not so much… Some people it depends on what kind of day they’re having.

I’ve met good looking people some who are great people and others who are assholes. The same as any other person.

[Anonymous]

I'm not shy but if I show attention to a guy he thinks I'm hitting on him, so I keep to myself and guys think I'm shy or unfriendly. Then they're surprised to see me outgoing with my friends.

[Blacksnake285]

That is true but you would do the same shit and wouldn’t be stuck up if the guy made 6 figures. It’s like women change so fast when it comes to wealthy men lol 😂

[Anonymous]

If they were ugly as kids all the way to high school.. and as adult they glow up. Chances are they’ll be shy

[adventurous-1]

It depends on the woman, each one is different. her history, her experiences, her attitude towards men and life, is she shy? or is she just tired of the unwanted attention, how you approach her has an impact to her reaction to you. If she wants nothing to do with you then respect that and move on, If she is open to you then be a gentleman and treat her as the lady she is. Allow things to develop over time, don't rush her, let her make up her mind where you stand with her. Every woman's view of the world is different and unique, you must take the time and make the effort to get to know her and understand her, who she is and what she likes. Once you fully understand her as a person, an individual with her own set of values, preferences, wants, and likes can you hope for a meaningful relationship.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s your misconception about them. You seem to have grown about predominantly around males. There are guys whose laps they will jump on not so shyly.

I have seen that happening with my brother.

When we walked together, stranger girls were hating on me, thinking I was his girlfriend.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There was a gorgeously pretty girl, cheating on his fiancé with my brother, she even told my brother “I love you”, my brother didn’t say it back as he didn’t want to lie to her. He told her, he wanted nothing serious and it would be better, she’d go back to her fiancé. That girl went back to his fiancé and married him. :)

Another girl, super beautiful, was married and my brother was his first love, one day, she called my brother after she got married and told him “Just tell me, you’ll accept me back and I’ll leave my husband today.”

Yeah, so you see, all these girls might seem closed and shy to you, they look mysterious and super beautiful, but they’d both happily leave fiancés and husbands for a handsome man.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Beauty gets overly romanticized. My brother is a handsome guy. Many pretty girls were after him. He often told me when I was taken, that he dreamed of a relationship like my ex and I had. He thought we were so lucky to have found each other.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

The most attractive natural beauties I've ever met were always so incredibly friendly and open-minded and not at all judgmental.

What I've found though is that when we start to drop just a few notches below that (like the type that has a nice bod and looks okay caked in make-up in the bar after a few tequila shots), then not all girls like this are mean, but it's in this kind of category where I find the meanest, most judgmental, most insecure girls just in my anecdotal experience.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

If I try to go by ratings, what I'd consider maybe 8+ is usually where we find the kindest, most open-minded, least judgmental natural beauties.

Then once we drop to 6-7 bracket, and maybe clustered around 6.5, that's where I've always found the meanest, most insecure, most judgmental, jealous types of girls. Again not all women in the bracket were mean, it's just that all the meanest I encountered were in this bracket.

Then once we drop down to 5 with the Plain Janes, a lot of those are often nice again.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

What I think may be happening if my experience is representative of a broader phenomenon (which it may very well not), the 6.5 is a little bit above average so she'll get some attention provided she's not standing next to an 8. Yet she probably has stood next to an 8 before and realized she can't compete when next to her, and then the jealousy and insecurity starts. Then she might start putting on way more make-up, wearing the skimpiest clothes, all to try to beat the 8 but then the 8 comes back next to her after she went out of her way caking herself in make-up and wearing the skimpiest clothes and the 8 still gets all the attention. So now she's so pissed and develops the worst attitude. Again not all 6.5s are like this (not even close), but I think this may explain the bad attitudes of the ones who are. The 5s might just realize they're 5s and embrace themselves as they are.

Guys can be somewhat like this too. I often find the total dicks might be like a 6.5 while 8+ is often totally chill. They're above average so they have some game, but some might start to think or wish they're top dog. So they carry themselves like top dogs and have hyper-inflated egos but they're actually a 6.5. Again not all guys who are 6.5 are like this (not even close), but a lot of the total dicks might be in this bracket.

[WellDone]

Even beautiful woman can be introverted, closed from people. But since they are beautiful, a lot of guys and girl wants to talk to them, so they get used to it pretty quickly and are almost never shy, but they can be meek. I believe women mostly want men from who they can gain a little bit or look up to, even beautiful ones.

[LiamJHayden]

I do not think there is any hard and fast rule. I've known stunning women who thought their excrement smelled like roses, and others who thought they were unattractive. Some are almost as extroverted as I am. Others looks like they will melt if you notice them.

[yovem457455]

Hahahaha, it's quite the opposite, attractive women are promiscuous, those who are shy are the women who were unattractive when they were children and then became attractive in adolescence, my high school girlfriend was like that, however, later in life adulthood, even they also end up being promiscuous (they just hide it quite well)

[RedInnocent68]

That’s ridiculous.

[On_cloud_wine]

@RedInnocent68 👍 agreed.

[Asad1ONE1]

Couldn't be more wrong ❌.
Try again!

[4ngelic]

there's a lot of variety in really pretty girls. you have some who are the sweetest people ever like you have stuck up bitches. but overall they tend to be pretty alright most of the time

[Loldebateyourpref]

From my experience and opinion I feel like the the 6.5 women knows if I become friend with the 8-9 that from time to time they will feel like oh she making me look unattractive again but it’s not true it’s how you look and she’s accepted you. Vice versa.

[678987]

No, most beautiful women are just shy not unfriendly, because many jerks want her attention, so most beautiful women usually they just mind their own business

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I know there's some beautiful women out there that are just shy.

[Blacksnake285]

Are there any Latinas that like black guys?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I wouldn't know.

[SotiCoto]

Evidence suggests my standards of beauty are unorthodox.
I mean I'm not going to make any blanket statements on what beautiful women do, as my classification of "beautiful women" probably isn't the same as yours.

[Billlewis]

I think it varies greatly from person to person.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about shy and unfriendly, but from what I've seen on social media, a lot of beautiful girls seem to be rather conceited, obsessed with their looks and have an attitude, based on their face expressions and way they talk

[Flatmanlewis]

Why does not equate to unfriendly to me. At all. I think the most beautiful women are unique and can be a variety of personalities.

[236color]

I don't think this is a situation where one has any relationship to the other. I have met beautiful women that fall into both categories.

[Anonymous]

In my experience the MOST beautiful women--the 9s and 10s--tend to be really nice. Trouble usually begins with the girls one or two rungs down from there. It's probably driven a bit by jealousy and insecurity.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My experience is very much the same! My way of rating is slightly different putting the really nice ones at 8+. But very similar experience in my case.

[Opinion Owner]

@GuyAnswersGirls123 Yeah--your rating makes a lot of sense. There aren't really many 10s in the real world, so most "really hot" girls are 8s and 9s.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I think you're onto something with possibly jealousy and insecurity a couple rungs down, like maybe what I'd call a 6.5 (not just in my eyes, but how they're treated by other people). Some may become very insecure and jealous of the 8s. If we drop down even further though to around 5 though, I think they just don't bother to compete so much and just accept that they're not going to be the hottest girls in the room so many of them are nice again.

[Opinion Owner]

@GuyAnswersGirls123 Yes--I think that's right. There's that "attractive but not quite gorgeous" level where some of the worst personalities seem most common.

[turnpost]

If there in good company, then extra extroverted. If in bad company those are jealous then become shy and unfriendly as there experiences have been negative.

[RedInnocent68]

No, each one is unique. There are plenty of gorgeous, outgoing and friendly, as well as shy and reserved women out there…

[DontAskMePeople]

By opposite would you mean.. Stuck up & unapproachable then sure

[IslaTheWitch]

Just imagine everyone hits on you... You can develop an unfriendly attitude lol

[Anonymous]

I feel for your generation of men. Most of the women really don't qualify as women anymore.

[MissBoogus]

I don't know I don’t know other people but I’m shy but not unfriendly

[Crankor]

Nah they do have a much different perspective though

[Pohjolan]

The two tens I have known don't meet that description.

[Chthou95]

Complete opposite. Most are stuck up and entitled

[Anonymous]

I think beautiful women are heartless and rude.

[Anonymous]

Opposite. Ugly women are shy, confident expressive women are attractive.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Shy , unfriendly and most prolly nerd

[Starrrboy]

Definitely the opposite of shy..

[KittygosMeoWW]

Very attractive people are usually social

[jimmy2]

They are due to to much attention

[slatyb]

It's neither.