I told my friend I was moving to Spain but she said I shouldn’t because how do I know if my boyfriend is the one why would she say that?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

You’re moving to Spain for your boyfriend? How long have you been together?

[Asker]

We already live together for the last 2 years

[HollyK21]

So where does Spain fall into the mix? Would you be moving with him or for him? Just trying to make the connection as to why you’re friend is asking what if he’s not the one.

[Asker]

It was me that wanted to try Spain as I have a remote working job and I can apply for a visa. My boyfriend lives in the uk it’s me already

[LiamJHayden]

Moving to another nation is a big deal, so unless you would independently want to do that, doing so for someone who is not legally committed to you might be a big risk.

[Asker]

I have a remote working job and I wanted to try something different. My boyfriend already lives with me in the UK as he works in research at the uni

[Zestyassmf1997]

She’s saying that because she’s worrying for you. It just means she cares.

[Asker]

I already live with him for the last 2 years with no issues he is very nice and my brother has known him 5 years before me and has a good reputation

[Zestyassmf1997]

That’s fine. She’s just looking out for you.

[Asker]

She was gonna move to another city as she thought another guy was into her and they weren’t even girlfriend/boyfriend.

[Zestyassmf1997]

You’re missing the point.

[Asker]

I’m just saying that it’s not over something stupid tho

[Zestyassmf1997]

She’s just looking out for you, that’s all.