Is it weird that my boyfriend wants to go on an international trip with his girl best friend who he used to be in love with? That too Europe?

[starsandaliens]

[Summeroflove]

It’s hard to say without knowing both of them. Does he get overly defensive if you bring it up? Or are you able to express your honest feelings to him not in a controlling way but in a way that’s expressing how you feel.

Now maybe they are genuinely platonic friends I don’t know them. But knowing he used to be in love with her… Ehhh I mean if your gut is screaming. If you feel sick over this. If he’s being really defensive about it. If you have noticed weird behaviors between them. Yes

[Zack-Bann]

Solo trip to Europe to explore the “road not taken”
What’s weird about that?


Oh wait: EVERYTHING.


This is why I always say you can’t have an opposite gender “best friend “
It works both ways and always leads to drama.
Because they’re always a hop and skip away from being more than that

[Anonymous]

Definitely weird. Why wouldn’t he invite you? So that she doesn’t feel like a 3rd wheel? He’s probably still in love with her, but she’s the one who’s either not interested or with someone already but she loves the attention from your boyfriend. She loves feeling like a priority. This is coming from someone who dumped a guy for still secretly being in love with his best friend who he was super close with.

[DishLady]

Yeah, it certainly is weird... doesn't your gut tell you so? Come on...

[Effably]

Alone? Yes. In a big group of friends or something? Not really, but then I'd assume I have an invite too.

I am plenty open myself and rarely judge but if my partner wanted to go on a trip with their ex or past romantic interest, alone, then yes. That is a no-go.

[DannyUk2017]

You can think of... Ex Boyfriend! Because that screams from miles Away that he just Broken up with you! Just analise the situation a little bit, just break it down bit by bit, and then come back and give us the Results that You came up with...🤔🤦‍♂️

[slatyb]

Weird? No. It would be weird if he was still your boyfriend.

[vj0090]

Perfectly normal... until he asks you to sponsor the trip... till then absolutely fine... !!!

What's fucking wrong with yiy... offcourse it's super super weird...

[Anonymous]

Nope, it's perfectly normal.

What do you say?

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Pretty odd. There are a tiny few instances where this can be innocent

[PeachyPie93]

If he goes tell him it's over..

[jahaims]

No way you are that stupid

[Wise4myage]

Its not only weird, its not cool or acceptable.

[seeyounexttuesday]

you mean your ex-boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’d tell him no