Why do I have feelings for her?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl I had a falling out with three years ago, but I have feelings for her. I keep thinking about her every day, and it's killing me. We both stopped talking to each other. I feel like she doesn't care for me. Maybe it's best to leave her in the past?

[bobalife]

😐 I feel it. Sometimes, you just can’t help who you care for because of your connection or what yalls had despite the amount of years has passed. Well I’d say reach out instead of thinking what ifs and regretting. But if you truly feel like nothing will change, it’s time to let yourself let go of her…. and move on even though it’s not what you want & it’s hard. But that’s life… 😐

[Anonymous]

You’re probably bored and haven’t found anyone else. I think if you’ve reached out continuously and she hasn’t responded or reacted, then you’re right.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, there’s probably regret for letting her go and wondering if it was the right decision. If you know you could’ve had her and been happy, by now, had you made a different choice; and it’s possible that you would’ve found love and happiness, but it’s also possible that you wouldn’t. That she was the wrong girl. Or maybe the timing was wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

Is that about right?

[678987]

Just talk with her, maybe she has feelings for you too but you didn't declare them at time. Open genuine communication is the best

[Tharithi]

U stopped talking to her u toxic shit. U don’t care about her

[Anonymous]

This is teenager type nonsense. Get over it.

[Asker]

No nigha

[Anonymous]

Dude, its time for you to move on. So focus on that.