My female cousin's behavior seems strange from quite a years ago (3-4 years)?

[Srahman7]

I'm 23 and my Female cousin 22 sits very close and rubs her body with mine by the side when no one is around and plays along whatever topic I discusses with her. It happened in several occasions like on sofa, in car sits. Always tries to find way to talk to me. Sometimes touches and play with my hair. And many times got compliments from her about my attractiveness, Also she isn't bad looking either. why is she doing this strange behaviours?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, that sounds super weird. Your cousin definitely seems to be crossing some lines there.

Rubbing up on you alone and touching your hair - that's not normal family stuff. And dropping compliments about how attractive you are? Super inappropriate.

It almost seems like she might have feelings for you. Which is just wrong on so many levels, dude. You guys are family.

I'd try to avoid being alone with her as much as possible moving forward. Keep your distance physically too - no snuggling up on the couch together or anything.

If she brings up those creepy compliments again, you gotta be direct and tell her it makes you uncomfortable. Make it clear you only see her as family.

Maybe also chat with one of your other older cousins or an aunt/uncle you trust. See what they think and if they can talk to her too.

This whole thing is messed up, bro. Just shake her off and don't encourage that twisted behavior at all. Family shouldn't be acting like that.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sounds like she's horny and wants you.
I have a 2nd cousin, Julie, who looks just like Michelle Pfeifer and she seemed to be hot for her cousin (my 2nd cousin, also) and most of us thought they were fucking each other. He was a bit of sleaze, too! It eventually got him killed.

[bobalife]

Yeah that’s weird… incest vibes. If you’re not wid it, just assert boundaries… I recall having a guy cousin doing similar things years ago and even asking me to go out with him on midnight runs just the two of us…. So weird…. I was just confuse and hang with his sisters instead lol.

[KittyKat90210]

Ooof, that's creepy coming from a cousin. She's obviously attracted to you. If it continues I'd tell her that you're not comfortable with the physical contact.

[HaveNoName]

What is so strange about that? You are a male, she is a female. And you are neither siblings, nor parent and child.

[Srahman7]

That's my first cousin isn't it weird enough? 😐

[HaveNoName]

That is a society construct. There is nothing forbidden about that by God. Yes it has health effects and it is recommended, rightly so, to not keep marrying within first cousins. However, finding it weird is a society construct that has been engrained in the minds of people.

[laly520]

odd
she likes u as it seems

[riverrat3]

She has the hots for you

[Anonymous]

She likes u