Do you think there is something wrong with my cousin?

[Mamasanma]

My cousin is 25 year old man and was alway into older men. He is bisexual but I think he is gay. Anyways, since he used to be attracted to his teachers and other men when he was a kid he doesn't think older men advantage of kids unless they don't consent and gets angry at people who try to hate on these men and call them pedos. He tries to blame the girls usually for trying to seduce the man.

He got into an argument yesterday with me because a 37 year old man was having sex with his friends 15 year daughter and he got hate from my friend who knows the man. My cousin jumped on my friend and started yelling at him. We had to separate them.

[Gingerbread_GB]

It's not wrong to have a different opinion. Your cousin's opinion is quite unconventional to most people, but they are still just opinions.

I think his problem is that he doesn't know how to communicate with people with different opinions. Yelling doesn't make him more right than the other person. It just make him look weak and insecure. It has nothing to do with his sexuality or what he thinks about older or younger men.

[Rizwan_khan]

I don't think there is something wrong with your cousin but yes you have to aware that your cousin can get in trouble.

[Mamasanma]

What for

[Mamasanma]

I don't understand

[Nightmoon83]

They absolutely can take advantage of kids it doesn’t matter how they are if they are older than the kids they can take advantage of them they can not concent so there are many different laws right there

[Mamasanma]

In our country 16 is legal

[berisky23]

His opinion on older men and consent seems somewhat warped and I definitely don't agree.
Especially with his friends duaghter only being 15. There's no world in which that's ok

[Tonitos]

I don't care for bisexuals' people but I really don't tolerate bisexualities, for example, am willing to drop my kid from school if he happens to happens to study with a bisexual student. i am 24 but I am so strict when it comes to discipline

[Mamasanma]

This has nothing to do with this question

[Gent207-2]

9 out of 10 your cousin was sexually assaulted and poen exposure contributed to his beliefs

[Mamasanma]

So all men who defend female pedophiles because they would have liked it have been sexually assaulted too?

Makes no sense

[Gent207-2]

People who defend pedophiles are ether themselves a victim or a perpetrator
End of story!

[Mamasanma]

Okay

[Guardian45]

Sorry, but a 37yo getting it on with a 15yo is a Pedo!

[Ptrmbrs88]

There's something wrong with everyone's cousin. Don't worry about it.

[PointTaken]

Which one should I hate? Why's it ok for the 37 year old to be having sex with a 15 year old?

[Mamasanma]

No I am talking about my cousin

[PointTaken]

Sounds like your cousin might have had a good reason to be mad.

[Anonymous]

he's in denial of the abuse he experienced that affected his sexuality

[Mamasanma]

He never told me anything about abuse

[WhiteBoyChill]

Send him to a mental institution immediately. He is a danger to society

[Mamasanma]

Why danger?

[Anonymous]

yeah he is sick in the head. not all gays but many who are gay are pedophiles and try to justify their sexual desires no matter how wrong it is to others, they don't see it that way.

[Mamasanma]

This doesn't make sense why he would be a pedophile. You should check the definition.

[Mamasanma]

And linking sexuality to pedophiles is extremely ignorant. You sound like a bigot

[Opinion Owner]

well you are ignorant to ignore that 99.99999% of pedophiles ARE GAY there is a smaller percent that isn't. so ignorance much yeah. and even just your first question why he would be a pedophile? he's getting into physical arguments that 30 plus something year olds should engage in sexual activity with minors. You are one sick person.

[Mamasanma]

He never said that and you are a hypocrite because you wouldn't say that about men who defend female pedophiles because they were horny boys.

So you are just a sexist hypocrite, in addition to being ignorant.

[boggboss]

Sounds like a idiot

[DarkLegacy]

Probably yes