Ashamed of my looks. I don’t socialise because I don’t think my presence is truly wanted. should I stop?

[Anonymous]

Should I stop saying hi to people at work so I stop annoying them? I feel so gross, how do I survive? Is it okay to just work and not socialise unless they come up to me? Cause I look strange and asymmetrical and just off

https://ibb.co/x1p05J4

I’m turning 29 soon
Is this a sign I’m not meant to pass on my genetics because they are poor?
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[NamerOfStars]

Well, you should probably take some positive steps to improve your self-image; I don't think isolating yourself MORE is going to help with that.

And if you really need reinforcement that sometimes people DO want your company, then perhaps YOU should invite THEM. Pick three or four people and invite one of them to do something- it needn't be huge; it's probably better to start small, like catching a movie or going to check out a new local restaurant or something- and if they decline, for whatever reason, try again with the next person, and so on. That way, you'll have no doubt they want to spend some time with you.

[Drew-1990]

I guarantee you're better looking than you think, there are so many girls out there that think they're on attractive when they're beautiful. And if not finding someone means you're ugly then I guess I am too. I'm 33 and still single. But I know better. I may not be the hottest just average but I have been told by one or two girls I'm attractive. And even if you're not the most attractive, there are somebody out there who will find you attractive, Probably many.

[IslaTheWitch]

If you feel that way, I suggest asking a specialist for help. A good therapy should help you work on your self-esteem and other related problems.

[Anonymous]

If you wanted me to tell you you’re gorgeous, just say that lol 😘

[Asker]

Huhhhh?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m teasing, because to me, you’re beautiful. I’m sorry if I seem insensitive to your suffering though, not my intention.

[Jessica405]

Sounds like you have BDD. You think you look bad, but actually, you are lovely. Doon't stop saying hi!

[Kylie_Bug]

I think I answered your other question. Why do you have such a negative view?

[Asker]

Sorry I just wanted to ask more specifically. I don’t know it’s just how I see it

[Alexxess]

You are very beautiful

[Kylie_Bug]

Don’t be sorry, but you seem very negative about your looks.

[ManOnFire]

Picture expired before I could see it, so really can't say. But I doubt your situation is that bad. Most people are not seriously ugly.

[In_Trance]

you're creating problems in your head

stop that

[KrakenAttackin]

Are you kidding? You are very attractive. You issues are not physical, they are mental.

[KrakenAttackin]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hClJCl6IoM

[Anonymous]

Can't see the pic anymore but yes you should

[cootjuhh]

your pretty! or is full body ugly?

[riverrat3]

You are an attractive woman

[riverrat3]

If i were a little younger, i would want to meet you