How can I deal with being unattractive, and afraid of taking selfies because I just dont think im attractive?

[Anonymous]

I haven't made a selfie in almost two years because it's hard coping with the fact that I'm ugly or perhaps unattractive. When I go on dating sites I get no dates or no response from girls I like. Help please

[Jessie03]

You’re not unattractive lol. Honestly I genuinely feel that most people who think they are unattractive just need to try a little more. ie get a haircut that suits their face (take the time to style it if need be), dress a little better, teeth whiten, develop a skin care routine, eat better, exercise etc. It all depends on what your willing to do to feel good about yourself and become more confident.

[Asker]

I got so insecure at one point, I started bleaching my skin. I'm part Dominican, and everyone in my family has fair skin me. So has you can see my skin in all 3 of my pictures has a little skin discoloration. 😣

[Anonymous]

You look good but I would give you some tips:
Hairstyle:
https://goo.gl/images/2YPSWa

https://goo.gl/images/VLwsuh

Have more hair on top.

Beard:
https://goo.gl/images/Z2U6rm

Most of all: smile and take pictures form up not down and have good lighting.

And keep telling yourself you are beautiful cause you are. Eventually you will believe it

[Opinion Owner]

You look better with beard like in your first pic but more

[Asker]

Which pic do you think is better # 1 or 2?

[Opinion Owner]

The first pictures (1) 100%

[Asker]

The sad thing is that when people usually ask these questions and they're not black there's usually a lot of people answering the questions, but the fact that I'm a black guy nobody answers. Probably because they think a black man can't be attractive

[Opinion Owner]

Thats really sad. I actually prefer darker guys when it comes to dating. I can help you get dates on dating sites if you want?

[Asker]

What? How?

[Opinion Owner]

First how many dating apps do you use? I Think you should use Hot or not, tinder and badoo. Esspecially hot or not

[Asker]

I use tinder and POF. I barely use tender. Are hot or not and Badoo free?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they are both Free. I Think you should download them

[Asker]

That's helping me get dates?

[Asker]

I can get dates but nothing I'm attracted to

[Opinion Owner]

Okay I can help you with that. We start with hot or not. Tell me when you have download the app

[Asker]

Okay

[Asker]

It's already downloaded. I downloaded right when you said to

[Opinion Owner]

Okay Good. Now there will be options on what you like to do. The more options the more matches. So add a lot of stuff but add the Ones that are true. Like working out, music, summer, vacation or whatever you like to do.

[E_xotiic_Kiss]

Your not ugly at all, and everyone has a good side (angle) for me it's my right, find yours and use it , and maybe not so close to the camera, too close up looks terrible for most!

[SweetEvilKitty]

Get more confident, Find a look that works for you to make you feel more confident! Find good angles and take pictures in good lighting! Try different dating apps and join groups that interest you or volunteer.

[floatingme]

I dont think your ugly. And being attractive is not entirely dependant on skin or physical apprearance

[Pink2000]

Angles and good lighting are your friend.