Men put a lot of emphasis on looks. They'll overlook a lot of things, as soon as they see a pretty face. And I don't want that. I want him to have standards, beyond that.
I want him to pick me, not based on my looks, but because he genuinely find our personalities compatible in the long run.
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12 dI know you’re not saying all men are the same as you mention in your update. But it’s not sexist to say to weed out the bad apples. I get called a woman hating misogynist incel who hates women on one question/answer and the very next I’m being called a white knight blue pilled woke soyboy feminist. There is obviously bad apples and people who don’t like that need to look in a mirror.
There is nothing wrong with being attractive but you’re right. Some people are shallow… and shallow people are rarely honest unfortunately it would be nice if they would be. But they aren’t…. Because when they show their true colors too early people tend to reject them and move on.
Take things slow at first. If you reject sex and break things off with men wanting sex after the first few maybe even the first date or those men break it off themselves. You know what they are probably after… If all they can talk about is your looks.
Another thing. Make it a point to show them yourself without your hair done and makeup. I don’t care if you have to go swimming together. Spend time together see if he laughs at your jokes. See if things get deeper then just your looks.
Someone can look really good but not be compatible at all. So discuss things. What are you wanting form a relationship? Ask him what he’s wanting. If it’s not meant to be hopefully you can break it off respectfully. As well as watch for someone just trying to pretend to be anything you want. If everything you say… they say. That’s a red flag.
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2K opinions shared on Dating topic. You have to look at the color of his socks...
LOL.
The truth is that there's no shortcut "easy way" to tell unless the guy is completely obvious about liking you only for your looks - and because the guys most likely to be completely obvious about liking you for your looks are usually guys who are themselves very good-looking (and thus have tons of options with women, and are thus the guys considered to be the MOST attractive), most girls overlook that huge red flag when the guy is handsome and hot.
The ONLY way to know what a man's morals and values are like is to vet him, which takes lots of time and conversation. We're talking weeks, maybe months, depending on how much time you can spend on an average week. You also need to see him "in public" - how he behaves out in the world when other people, especially his friends and/or coworkers are around. You need to make sure that his talk matches his walk. And, as I said, there's no shortcut - no way to speed up the vetting process or to not have to invest time and energy into it. Oh, you can also ONLY properly vet someone that you're spending time with IN PERSON, so it's essentially impossible to vet someone who is long-distance. This is why you should only ever date people who are LOCAL to you.
I know this isn't what you probably want to hear - women especially hate being told that they can't just date anyone they want, or that they should put ANY restrictions on who they date, but your dates being LOCAL is in my opinion the most obvious restriction that anyone should have, and if you can't create and enforce THAT boundary, how can you be trusted to create or enforce any other boundary? This goes for everyone, by the way - men and women alike.
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You prob will be liked for looks alone sometimes, I don’t think there is a way to block this, but I think of it more like filtering and sorting, you can prob tell based on the things they say or how they act. Or if you are not sure you can ask some questions, for example “what made you want to ask me out?” which they might interpret as fishing for compliments but the real reason to ask is bc if they’re twitching with butterflies in their cock they are likely to reveal it with questions like that. Like if all they can think of is your looks or your clothes or something. JMO!
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13 dLike most things in life, looks get you in the door especially with men, but you have to prove that you are more than just a pretty face to keep them which is not easy.
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2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well if your the one with the pretty face then you should know how to read guys by now.
Just the the guys that like the girls with the big boobs.
Any guy who says he likes you listen to the way he talks to you
If he is there for you
Can he hear your words does he ask you the right question to find out who you really are
The man that sees you not for what you look like will be different from most. He will look in to your eyes to feel your heart. To know who you are to see and feel the real you the spiritual real person that's in there. And this might go on for a couple weeks, and then 1 day he will look at you and say, my God, you are absolutely beautiful, because he hasn't really noticed he's busy trying to find the real you on the inside...
and it does it takes sometimes , three days , sometimes two weeks for him to actually notice what you truly look like
That he wants even go there until he finds out who you are on the inside. The real you not the mask we all wear
He's smarter than most people, most guys. I should say he's not as shallow. He's wise and as he's looking for you on the inside.\n It will kind of be like he's ignoring you on the outside, but he's not it's just that he hasn't got there yet. He wants to feel energy was to become a part of you if he likes who he feels in sees on the inside. That is the most important person is you on the inside. And if a guy does not know that.. And if you don't know that, don't even give that time of day to the person\nYou need to learn that then who you are on the inside, you ask the question. So I believe that you actually do know who you are
And the best part about that is , you're the one that gets the final say
The one that makes the choice to let the guy in or not.
You're the boss10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I think you are trying to pretend you are good-looking enough that men are only wanting you for that. Most girls who are genuinely "beautiful" or hot do not try to broadcast that with a sideways bragging question like this. They typically have the attitude that they can always find someone regardless of whether a guy wants her for her looks alone or not. You are probably not as pretty as you imagine you are.
Women are actually the ones who care about looks in a man to a much greater degree than men care about looks in a woman. Men generally like pretty things as trophy girlfriends or wives: "I got to have the pretty one that other guys can't get." It's largely an ego thing. Whereas most women will be less inclined to date a guy who started balding early, has a receded chin, moles, etc. Women put more emphasis on how they think a man should look far more than they really admit.
I've seen men with downright unattractive women just because they have big butts or perform well sexually - and a lot of men have cheated with women who were less attractive than their own wives or girlfriends, and decided to stay with those women too.
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12 dI don't think many people like having others attracted to them for their looks alone. But physical attraction is undeniably a factor in dating. That's a reality people need to accept, especially women. Part of how we choose our partners is based on what we biologically/naturally associate with good genetics to pass on to kids.
Personality obviously matters as well. No one wants to be with an incompatible partner that makes life hell to be with. We want someone who adds to our lives. But looks is generally the first point of attraction.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/TSZ-JFcXviA00 Reply 3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Attraction comes first in most cases , without attraction someone isn’t going to waste their time getting to know you
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u 12 dYour appearance is part of sexual attraction. Don't be too eager to get in bed with a guy
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12 dI'll be very honest... that thought never crossed my mind. 😐
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13 dYou want to be taken seriously. Then be a serious person yourself.
You want to find a man with standards. Then have standards of your own. And enforce your standards and boundaries.
This applies to female friends as well. Surround yourself with people who matter. Ignore the rest.
Does that mean you'll end up rejecting a lot of men? Yes. Why would you care if they are not the men you want to be around?
Will it take effort and pushing men's buttons to determine if they are idiots or worth a conversation or possibly even an investment of your time and emotions? Yes. I'm not talking about playing games by giving them some Cosmo quiz of the month. I'm talking about getting past the small talk and into some real conversation about things that matter in life.
Challenge them to think and articulate their thoughts. See if they're capable of introspective thought or if they are clueless and directionless in life. Do they have the vocabulary and maturity of an 18 year old? Are they only capable of small talk. Can they identify the Indian Ocean on a map? Are they capable of thinking about their own failures, goals, and how they need to change or adapt to get what they want?
If a guy violates or refuses to respect your standards and boundaries, confront his behavior, first time, every time. Call an asshole out. It doesn't have to be dramatic. Just acknowledging you're not gonna accept that and you're done. Bye Johnny.
That sort of thing is exactly what I do with women all the time. Friends or romantic partners. I do the same with guy friends. Do I care if they disappear from my life? No, I actually want the people I don't care about to go away.
You don't want quantity. You want quality. It makes life so much more peaceful and easy.
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Asker13 dThank you!
Anonymous(30-35)12 dBaaically you want to attract a guy like me then (if we are compatible). I care immensely about compatibility to the point almost no girl qualifies.
Ill tell you the trick that would work on me. It is a thing with your look that you probably didn't think off. Change your style for a while and wear things that express what you like. If thats hard to find make something yourself online.
Because I have the reverse problem that you have. If I am in public chances are there are a lot of pretty girls around me. But why would I approach them? I have no opening with them, and I probably dont have anything meaningful in common. So give me that opening.
Now lets assume you did my strategy and wore a basic shirt that says "Deep conversations are the best". First of all you might say, " What? I wouldn't do that thats not stylish at all!! ". Good, because you aren't trying to be the prettiest you can be remember? You are trying to be the most approachable you can be. Its an immediate opening, I can go "I like your shirt, what topics do you like talking about?" and have a means to proof my mutual interest in deep conversations. While the guy approaching you will also take the hint but fumble it since he's not natural at them.
Doesn't have that particular thing of course, make it personal and something you like. But I have seen the struggle before with a girl who was overjoyed I loved her for her and she didn't have to pretend with me after everyone else went for her looks. Our ways of dating in our generation are basically broken, so I think my shirt idea will help even if its intentionally not the most stylish.
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13 dI think that is a standard and if you don't like it then you must hate men (lol jk)
But it does kind of remind me of women saying there's nothing wrong with wanting a guy with money.
I think our minds tend to do:
Money=safety
Beauty=health
especially as we get older.
I also think a lot of women have absolutely no idea what men care about. It leads to them thinking the guy has low standards.
It's like saying the perfect dish. To me I want my steak sous vide to perfection medium rare, and then practically just on the edge of burned on the outside.
Some people prefer their hotdogs microwaved.
And that guys not wrong for looking at my steak dish and thinking it's gross.
Or when I go to Wendy's and get the combo, half the time I don't even eat the fries, it's just a dollar cheaper than getting the burger and the drink for some reason.
I'm not gonna abandon my girl Wendy just because her fries aren't up to my standards.
00 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. 1. Most women value physical appearance FAR more than men do. The majority of men are okay with a woman that is a 5 or better in looks, but the majority of women only want a man that is an 8 or better in looks and if she gets with someone with less good looks, she will easily cheat on him or leave him for someone better looking if they are interested in her, no matter how many years they have been together, or if they have a family together too.
2. Most women bring very little value to a man's life and that is why they think men only value looks. Does she like the same hobbies as him? Nope. Does she like the same movies as him? Nope. Does she have the same moral standards as him and a compatible past? Nope. Is she as loyal as him when it comes to not posting provocative/revealing pictures online (cheating)? Nope. If they both work, does she contribute equally financially to THEIR living? Nope. She likely wants him to cover the bills, food, housing, etc. and thinks all the money she earns is just for herself, but what he earns is somehow half hers. So, what exactly is the man supposed to like her for when the majority of partnerships, the women have almost nothing in common with the man and bring almost nothing of value to his life? Seriously, please give details.
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Anonymous(25-29)12 dAs far as I'm concerned, being physically attractive to me specifically is a necessary condition for me to like any woman. It isn't the only condition though since ideally she would be nerdy or something (I can't stand girly girls).
If you're saying that you want him to like you even if you were not physically attractive to him, then I don't think you're going to find any success since the vast majority of men have sex drives and this urge is biological, meaning he did not choose to want attractive women, he just found himself wanting them.
However, if you're saying you want him to like you for your looks AND some other things, some things you can try are: being selfless (do things that make his life more convenient, like Donna from Suits if ykyk); don't try to emotionally manipulate him (when I detect a woman doing that, I am immediately permanently repulsed by her); and don't demand a lot (the people I genuinely want to help the most usually ask for the least). in general, my advice is that you just have to think selflessly. The women I would consider marrying are often like that since they seem like they'd be good mothers and I happen to be attracted to that for some reason.
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12 dWell, if you follow the lies of the modern culture, like is all about YOU. The only thing that matters is making yourself happy 24/7, endless pleasure. Youbare entitled then you will get on the pill. You'll start having sex, risking disease, possibly creating a new person... with practically every man you date.
If you give up sex to every guy you go out with then you almost guarantee they will only like your looks. Once they have hit it a few times they will be off.
If you are a sweet, selfless person who is loyal and has character and you keep sex for someone who is committed FIRST, and you want a family together. No commitment, no sex. If you put family above parties, alcohol, clubs, career obsession, travel you will definitely find people who want you for you.
Follow wisdom or follow the subtle allure of the lie society preaches.
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Asker12 dWell I already got that covered, which is why I find it important he doesn't lower his other standards for my face. I am looking for marriage and don't want him to sacrifice certain standards that are important for longevity.
13 dGuys can be shallow for sure. I integrate my personalty into my sense of style. I go all out with makeup looks, wear cop web stockings, wear goggles as an accessory lol
I don't think it needs to be a looks vs personalty thing.
outside of that I'm just myself. 300% goofball. It helps that i have a loud personalty lol
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I feel looks are more important to women than men. We have a tough time getting dates on dating apps
11 dTime is the only answer. One thing you have to keep in mind is that LOOKS are the initial attractor. This is just human instinct, male or female.
That being said, the difference between a BOY and a MAN is that a man realizes looks are a small piece of the puzzle. A man will take his time to get to know the lady if he wants something serious.
Your problem stems from this whole "hurry up and do things fast" dating culture. It takes TIME to get to know someone. Who you marry is the biggest investment you will ever make. SHOCKER to this fast culture. There is a reason old-school marriages have a greater chance of success than those of millenials or younger.
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Forgot to add that us guys have an issue of not even being able to get to know a woman if we don't look perfect. Perfect meaning we fit HER definition of a perfect-looking man AND able to show wealth.
11 dI show my "ass". Im not all that pretty lol so I dont exactly have it the same as you, but when I feel like someone is lusting after me. I show them a piece of my worst... if you want me at my best you have to also want me around at my worst...
Now that being said dont do crazy shit... But we all have things we need to work more on and things that we are just good at. We'll if you feel like the guy wants you just for your best quality show him one thats not so pretty and see how he reacts to that.
Got to love the paradoxes of life 😉 being pretty shows you how ugly some really people are. Also Strengths and weaknesses comes from the same place.00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Oh Great! Women spend 3 trillion $'s per annum on looking even more beautiful then attack us for liking their make up.
No, I'm not attacking - I just can't resist the ironic.
I don't think you need to worry so much about your pretty face causing us to overlook character defects. A pretty face will have us chatting you up but we are not going to marry you if it feels like you are a lot of work.
Basically we don't have a lot of requirements like women do. We want you to be genuinely nice. Nice to us always, caring, family oriented (with us as your primary family), and have respect for us.
These are character traits not personality. You might be bubbly, out going, not shy in your personality. These things help but it is character that is important.
If you are genuinely nice you've got nothing to worry about - you're good to go.
00 Reply535 opinions shared on Dating topic. Then let us be attracted to your good looks but set a schedule for starting up a relationship. The. first two talking dates should be The Negotiation. Quiet, secluded. Public. Starbucks is good. Work out the details, including goals and sexuality. Always control the pace. He may stay or go based on what you express.
If he stays, you have a deal. If he goes, you lose nothing. Understand that intimacy is mandatory at some point after deal is made. Stick to the plan you offer and agree on. No mystery or guesswork. Your good looks is the magnet. The content you agree on is central, and up to YOU once you begin negotiations. This shouldn't be hard if you apply critical thinking rather than fantasy.
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12 dTricky and it's good that your not using your beauty for selfish shallow reasons. All i can say is be yourself and explore hobbies the more yourself you are and the less you chase validation and approval the more people will feel polarised by you but in a good quiet way, if explore hobbies like dancing, board games etc you'll attract people who look for more genuine characteristics not soley your looks.
Also I'd avoid the popular crowd especially if they honour poor values and morals, the first being because you'll stick out like a sore thumb and feel too visible to guys in popular girls groups. Last word of advice i have left is listen to your gut more if you feel lust about it and there is something desperate about his cues then there is a chance he is thirsting for you in a sexual and less holistically.
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Anonymous(18-24)12 dI completely understand what your saying and I also agree.
men talk sooo much about how a woman looks, just like they talk sooo much much shit about a woman if they aren’t attractive to her. Just like how they all associate sex with love, if you don’t have sex with them in their heads you no longer love them, find them attractive or want them. Those ones are all so fucked up in the head honestly, not every guy but it’s a big majority of me.
notice how one said in the comments how looks and a “good fuck” does it? They really don’t care for women.
which is why when they don’t get what they want? They automatically let you know they didn’t actually even like you..
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11 dThere are no sure things in relationships. You have to use your judgement to decide if he is being honest with you about his feelings and not just telling you what you want to hear and give it your best shot. At your age that is very hard to do because you don't have enough life experience to make a good judgement. Relationships don't come with guarantees. All you can do is the best you can and leave the rest up to fate. Everyone must go through this in life. Some work out better than others. But all of life is a gamble.
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12 dHow can you tell that you are being liked for your looks only?
If you are only beauty with no brains trust me nobody would want to engage with you it's too much work even for men.
And your personality would reflect in your words and action of you presented them well they will be noticable beauty is added advantage offcourse everybody wants a handsome man and beautiful girl as their partners..
Compatibility is a long term gain and it takes time to build relationship if the person wants to stay they will stay even for one reason if they want to leave they will leave..
Even the most beautiful girl or loyal man can get cheated or seperated nobody can assure you a guaranteed good relationship beautiful or not doesn't matter it's just fate chance and the effort you put in to maintain that relationship.01 Reply- 12 d
And also sometimes we are just over confident about our looks and we might not be as beautiful as we perceive ourselves..
13 dBy showing more of who you are and setting the tone early.
I don’t mind being appreciated for my looks, but I make sure people see my mind, my standards, and how I carry myself.
When someone stays for that, I know it’s genuine.30 Reply- 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
12 dThis might sound a little bit silly, but you'd go a long way by making an effort to be a genuinely likable person.
A lot of women who find themselves only being liked for their looks are much less pleasant people to deal with than they realize.
10 Reply Yeah, looks are a part of attraction, lust, and love so you're never going to be able to remove it from that part of the equation - do not forget that women do the exact same thing: there was a felon who was a super good looking guy nicknamed, "the hot felon", that was blowing up the internet and women were going crazy for him despite being a multiple repeat felon.
Anyhow, back on point. The only way to rule out men looking for sex only is to simply as them what they're looking for and test their reaction and/or wait a few dates before giving in sexually.
00 ReplyYou avoid being liked just for your looks by showing depth early, share your values, boundaries, and what you want, and pay attention to who actually engages with that. People who only care about your appearance lose interest when they realize you expect effort and emotional maturity.
10 ReplyHave more desirable traits. Clearly people are going to like you for your physical appearance, but they will also like other things about you if there are other things about you to like. Not wanting to be physically desired is retarded. The's kind of the primary directive of sexual reproduction/mating...
11 ReplyEveryone picks people based on looks you’re doing it too. Women tend to be pickier on this metric, the idea that men overvalue looks is overstated and couldn't be more untrue. The data shows women are far, far pickier.
People who are more attractive are automatically perceived as kinder, smarter, and more interesting, So while it’s natural to want to be valued for personality, appearance always plays a role. The key is finding someone whose interest persists once personality and shared values come into play.
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12 dFirst thing, you can't control how others perceive you.
What you can do is just simply be yourself as much as possible right from the beginning including your embarrassing traits and see if the person still likes you.
That or a silly approach, purposefully dress in a way that makes you look really unflattering. Unflattering clothes, unflattering hair, unflattering makeup, everything. Though I think this one is too goofy to be taken serious. Lol.
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12 dBeing genuinely liked depends never on looks alone. There are a lot of different and general factors influencing how someone feels about a person. Sure in the case of a pretty girl, her look will in any case play a part, and there is nothing one can do about that. Just be yourself, and you'll probably feel better.
00 Reply905 opinions shared on Dating topic. I agree with you. Sure both guys and girls appreciate good looking girlfriends or boyfriends but it is the person inside that counts and their personality. Your thoughts? Do you feel the same way about your boyfriends... you want to enjoy them for who they are not just their looks?
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Asker11 dI very seldom sexual attraction unless I am emotionally attached to them. So yeah looks mean very little
Asker11 dI haven't actually had sex
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13 dMany do and many likely always will. Both sexes can be guilty in some of this. You aren’t really going to avoid it unless you can learn to tell early on if they are purely driven by your looks and nothing else. Simply put, you need to become your own filter and not rely entirely on men to do so. Developing your own discretion in a lot of areas of life is a wise thing anyway.
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Asker13 dWhat kind of questions should I ask to know? Even just to myself.
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I am not sure questions will help. You can tell by how you both interact. Is it easy/natural? Or does it seem more forced and looking around to be seen with you as a way to boost his delicate ego. You can tell because “you” are not as important as your looks for him. Make sense?
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12 dFor initial attraction, I would say it is impossible, but the good news is that wears off real quick. If you're thinking about breaking up with somebody, they can be the hottest person in the world and that means nothing. But initial traction is natural, don't let it bother you, I do understand that you want to be lights for more than the looks, and that will come with time. And getting to know each other.
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12 dI think that that's ultimately up to the man.. You just have to have good character judgement.. Find a guy who values a friend, and a partner in life.. And you can show that you're smart with hobbies or interests in life.. Most men and women want the same thing when it comes to companionship, but unfortunately many go about it in all the wrong and sometimes evil ways..
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Anonymous(45 Plus)13 dMost likely that’s not going to happen. Not in the beginning. Men love good looking women. That’s just how it is. As they spend more time together he gets to know her personality. That’s what will make or break a potential relationship. Doesn’t mean he won’t sleep w her even if she’s got a bad personality. He just won’t take her seriously.
10 Reply960 opinions shared on Dating topic. You are aiming for the right things. Physical attraction is very important, but no relationship can be built on that alone.
But to answer your question requires going a little bit deeper into what you want and what your attitude is right now. So what kind of man are you looking for? And what kind of relationship do you want to have with him?00 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
7 dThe initial attraction from a man will always be from your looks, there is no way around that. What determines if he sticks around are the other things you offer: your feminity, your values, your submission, your ability to cook and clean, etc.
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11 dWhat if after brief conversations about one another i couldnt handle it anymore and said "your so beautiful and i really want to feel your ass." If the only places we talked were in public places? Better to just volunteer my number and say "If you ever need something or want any help text me." Would those statements make you dislike me?
00 Reply19.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. That’s the first thing that gets your foot in the door is attraction then everything else is connecting and bonding and personality. What do you have in common? What are your interest do you like to travel etc. etc. what are the things that you enjoy in life that’s a big part of it.
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Anonymous(36-45)12 dIf you are someone who wears makeup and do your hair and nails, stop with that for 3 months and see how he reacts. You can wear it to work, but remove it before going to him. If you have a sexy figure, stop wearing fitted clothes or tops exposing your cleavage. It's called the 90 day rule. Your true side comes out after 90 days.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. You are asking to know which men will keep you after they sleep with you and you can't really know the future.
If you have a relatively clean slate (less than one partner every other year) then that sort of guy exists but you don't find him yourself you find him through your friends and his friends. He talks to your friends and their partners to understand who you are and you talk to his friends and their partners to understand who he is.00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don’t think that’s possible. It would just depend on what kind of values the guy has. It’s not something that you can control within yourself.
00 ReplyYes, i know what you mean. But does he know what he is looking for? are you asking a boy to know himself? watch carefully. You are certainly a great women, but love and youth tend to enmesh, neither knowing what life is about. Take your time :-)
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. By developing your other traits like charm and personality.
You're being rather vain and self-important to think your looks are "overpowering" your other qualities,...
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11 dYou do an anti-make-up. You put on pimples, bruises, wrinkles, scars and acne. Or why not do entire birth marks or burn marks? You'll be the star of the show!
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12 dThat's easy.
I clearly look how I look 👀
So I know women either like me for me, or I must be letting off some serious pheromone's 😋😈💭🤭 disclaimer supposedly they don't exist
00 Reply762 opinions shared on Dating topic. Men will approach you if you are attractive but then it is up to you to make him want you for more than that by behaving and doing things that impress him.
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Gotta avoid the shallow men. If they say looks are important then you know to stay away from them
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Anonymous(36-45)13 dWomen put a lot of emphasis on looks too. It’s why I haven’t met anyone in so long. We have to be tall dark and handsome. I’m balding, I feel my face isn’t attractive enough for any women. I have spend $ on hair regrowth products and teeth whitening. Hopefully them women will approach me.
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13 dBy the way you present yourself and don't make your whole personality about your looks and appearance.
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12 dConvert to Islam and ware a burka
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You should convert to English and learn how to spell.
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@OneViewpoint No. I don't want to convert to an imperialistic nation.
They should convert to mine as well.
I talk English to an understandable level.
That is more then enough.
You learn my language and then you can criticize me. - 12 d
Your language is irrelevant. It doesn't matter. Like you.
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@OneViewpoint Same like you brain.
English is a stupid and illogical language.
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2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. You have to be more than just a pretty face, impress them with your mind, your heart.
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11 dWell it’s never happened because I’m a guy but if I see a pretty woman and I get to know her then that’s when I make my decision on whether I want to be with her because looks alone is not going to do it, but it will start the process
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13 dHave a personality for the liking? Actually develop some character beyond "I am the table". Lol. Also, there's no getting around initial attraction. You'll just have to deal with that like everyone else.
00 Reply5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. You can't not really. Your physical appearance is the first thing someone is gonna notice about you before anything else.
10 ReplyIt's just a fact that men are attracted to hot women and they will always be so stop whining and just deal with it.
00 Reply16.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. You can't with some men. For whatever reason, they can't look beyond it or simply are not interested in even trying.
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12 dI think you just got be in a situation to where you are around the men enough that they can get to know you. I mean really know you as a person.
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13 dAvoid people who only compliment you on those traits over which you had no control. I'm 6'2 with green eyes. Compliments on height or my eye color mean nothing to me.
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13 dPersonally I avoid it by looking like a horse's ass.
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12 dHave an exceptional personality and heart and don't overly accentuate your looks
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It's always been hard for me because I'm so stunningly gorgeous. So that's what I do. It helps to dress cheaply as well and act like you are a country bumpkin.
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Well, ok, my proctologist told me that, but I believed 'em.
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