You will not find a guy who can do this for you, you need to fix your issues yourself.
Try doing this, Next time you see a good looking woman, make up a story about her in your head. Not like something catty, but to remind yourself that being beautiful doesn't exempt yourself from heartache.
So you see her in a bar and instead of playing your life story, say about her "she just found out her mom has inoperable cancer"
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All you need to do is not do it, lol. Similarly to how in order to stop smoking, all you need to do is not smoke. Objectively speaking.
I use to always compare my looks to other girls and I thought I was fat so I surrounded myself with good people who I felt comfortable with and I didn't feel the need to compare anymore because they told me that I was a good weight and not to worry about other people:)
~We each get 86,400 seconds each day. And using even one to compare yourself to someone elsees looks is one second too many..~
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There are always and will be beautiful women somewhere. That is not something harming. That is great. Appreciate the beauty. If you respect, you will be respected too.
And you know what makes you the beautiful? Feeling beautiful. If you feel about yourself that way, you are the one.
Realise that everyone has different preferences for appearances. Beauty actually is in the eye of the beholder.
Example:
You thinking: I wish my breasts were as big as hers.
Guy thinking: her breasts are too big and saggy.
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Learn to live with and accept yourself.
I find myself attracted to people who are happy with themselvesIf I were you. I would take note of it. Wait till no one is around then hit myself in the leg. If you do it again. Repeat. Or if you don't think that will help. Every time you cAtch yourself doing it. Tell yourself its okay and go get some icecream.
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