I can’t stop stalking him since one year?

[Anonymous]

I spend my last summer at a host family who had a gorgeous son my age. He’s just everything I’ve dreamed about since being a young girl! He’s totally my type! Since getting home I can’t stop thinking about him and being obsessed with him!

I’ve created several fake accounts and I follow him and all his family member on instagram and facebook. I screenshoot every picture of him, even baby pictures.
I also look up the facebook page of his soccer club!

I also follow his ex-girlfriends from other fake accounts and take screenshoots from their body and compare them to mine. I also dm them what beauty products they would use, so I can buy them too...

I just can’t stop myself! I constantly find myself day-dreaming about him too and just wish I could be togther with him.. It really depresses me.. The thought of him meeting an other girl and them getting together makes me go nuts and crazy jealous!

[Poppykate]

You need professional help. Have you considered that this isn’t about the guy at all, and you are lonely or lacking something in your own life? 🤔 A professional therapist will address the problem! Please don’t waste another minute of your life obsessing. Seek help.

[bubbles328]

Ok messaging the exes is creepy. I say just go for it and stop stalking him! send him a message if he ignores or rejects you, move on.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Get professional help, you are going down a spiral.

[Asker]

Really isn’t that exaggereted?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

"It really depresses me", " I also follow his ex-girlfriends from other fake accounts and take screenshoots from their body and compare them to mine"
"The thought of him meeting an other girl and them getting together makes me go nuts and crazy jealous".
This is already going overboard and it will end badly.

[Asker]

Also I don’t trust telling this anyone

[Asker]

But I don’t dare telling this anyone everyone will think I am a crazy psycho stalker

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Eh...

[Asker]

Eh... what? Please help I really need it!

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I know you need it, it's obvious.
My ex had similar issues, you really need to talk with a professional.
They won't disclose what you tell them, they won't judge or treat you bad and will help you feel better.

[Asker]

But how can I tell my mother?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Just tell her, calmy and serenely.
Tell her you are struggling with those feelings and would like to sort them out to feel better

[Asker]

I don’t dare telling her this

[Avicenna]

That's crazy. Just ask him out!