How do you avoid being liked for your looks alone? (Page 2)

Question

Men put a lot of emphasis on looks. They'll overlook a lot of things, as soon as they see a pretty face. And I don't want that. I want him to have standards, beyond that.  I want him to pick me, not based on my looks, but because he genuinely find our personalities compatible in the long run.

glennos89 · Answer

Looks are the first thing that creates attraction but personality definitly matters most. I'm looking for a girl that has both tbh

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Just wear glasses and a pony tail, that's a deadly repellent for most shallow men. :-)

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

You can't. In order for a man to like you he will have to find you physically appealing. The right man for you will also like your personality besides just your physical looks.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Good girl 👍🏻 I agree with you, life had taught me to pick an average looking girl and maybe less if she can love me for real and make me happy because after all only your internal beauty lasts!

slatyb · Answer

You get to know someone better before investing in the relationship.

exitseven · Answer

looks is what gets you noticed but a sour disposition cannot be hidden forever.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Be more than your looks My first girlfriend was attractive but I was more attracted to her intelligence and personality

guesswhereivebeen · Answer

I’d say use looks to your advantage while your young and can… you’ll have plenty of time for guys to fall in love with your personality as the years go by

sportsbraslikes · Answer

To be completely honest don’t worry about it. The right guy will come to you. If you’re just focusing on yourself and your looks and he’s right there you’ll never see him. Don’t be self centered. Just be yourself and he’ll find you.

jahaims · Answer

That is up to you to attract men with less shallow values. If you only attract shallow men then you are doing something wrong.

douride2 · Answer

I have never really had that issue for most of my life.

Pohjolan · Answer

You are mixing short term and long term mating value. If its for short term only then why does him only wanting for your looks matter?

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

The fact that you're acting like a narcissist right now based on your look can just drive people away despite how you look.

foxsquirrell · Answer

Its natural. It makes sens genetically. What matters is to push forward good genes and leave bad genes behind.

Ulrich43 · Answer

a short but intense thought debunks yor Fantasy → Or do you Walk in Public hid in an advertising column displaying all your skills, trades and virtues?

CrazyToona · Answer

You have a great advantage, use it! The beauty gives you the most important thing in dating: the choice or may be the right to choose! Be a clever girl, choose yourself the right man.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

If you look pretty best thing you can do is get those guys lol

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Bring more to the table than looks. Be a good person, have a likable personality and don't be stuck up. You shouldn't have any issues.

Anonymous · Answer

If you look very attractive, you can't completely avoid it, but you can try showing your great personality.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Have good character, intelligence and decency.

msc545 · Answer

Just making a point to look ugly and see who still loves you.

Zforce194 · Answer

Be confident be genuine. Don’t flaunt yourself. Put your best foot forward. Don’t be arrogant. Be humble, kind, caring, understanding, and respectful.

n8765 · Answer

I think you meant.. how to be seen beyond the gender and the look by others... I guess firstly you need to set this in your mind

robocop666 · Answer

Many women like me however my personality is unusual and its either love me or hate me.

Gagforlifetime · Answer

The only way you will know if the guy is interested in a long term relationship

Anonymous · Answer

I loved her for who she was and still got hurt

Anonymous · Answer

Good question How about online dating? And don't meet until you have a bond?

spartan55 · Answer

You know people's opinions change

chrissykerdock · Answer

looks can often backfire be who you are

linka_pat307 · Answer

Someone finally ask a good question

Massageman · Answer

I maintain a steady level of ugliness. ;- )

DrPepper12 · Answer

EZ born with a face for radio...

Hulk30 · Answer

find Men who won't choose Women based on

Zoi90 · Answer

By seeking quality in people.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, like women don't.😆🙄

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I don't have this problem

ABC1x1x · Answer

Be ugly

In_Trance · Answer

Keep your clothes on

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