Girls, What would cause a confident outgoing woman to be shy around this one guy?

[Anonymous]

She is normally very confident but around this one guy she is very shy and she smiles at him but it is a shy smile. Whenever he is nearby she goes near him but she doesn’t look at him. What causes this?

She likes the guy

Very friendly

New situation for her

Feels awkward but she wants to be friendly

[Anonymous]

Depends on the situation. Maybe ur behaviour made her difficult/ gave her misleading and confusing signals and she doesn't know which is the right way to act towards you.

[Asker]

Yeah. It’s difficult anyway because I don’t know her but I think she is cute yes but also I really like her personality. She’s outgoing and confident. Some women are socially awkward but she is not. I just hope that it can work out but either way she deserves the very best because she’s truly awesome

[Opinion Owner]

You never talked with her?

[Asker]

Just hi bye really cos we are both busy
She works on my floor but in a different section. I’ll just say something to her if I can again

[Anonymous]

WOW 🧐
She probably sees you as a walking red flags! Just kidding, maybe you’re probably thinking too much into it 😎!

[Asker]

I am because I’m trying to use a makebelieve special power called overthinking to read her mind. Thanks for reminding me. Should be alright

[Opinion Owner]

Why, would it be important to read/understand her mind? If she’s shy around one guy, than she sounds simple to read, it doesn’t seem there’s too much into it!

[Asker]

If you have avoidant attachment and/or trauma history it can be really hard to read in my opinion

[Opinion Owner]

I see, you’re being presumptuous about her shyness toward you, your overthinking and presumptions is not gonna help you find out why.
You could simply have that effect on her, she’s probably just trying to figure you out, and may not know how to act around you yet, and is taker the best out of her. That one guy might have some zest, so she’s shy!
If she’s outgoing and she’s shy around that one guy, it’s probably because he is hard to read too!
The two of you are doing the same thing, different approach 😝😂😂!

[Opinion Owner]

Taking* the …

[Anonymous]

The guy probably gives off bad vibes.

[Asker]

Don’t you even read the description?

[Asker]

So she would go near a guy that gives off bad vibes
Riiiight