A girl issue advice for how to go about it?

[Cody2004]

I made friends at the swimming team recently I told her I view her as a friend. She keeps like I guess sexually harassing and a little bit of other things. She just sent a personal photo of herself to me not even 5 minutes ago how would I get this through to her without blocking her or upsetting her that I do not wish her this because it seems like she's not listening let alone with her grabbing my cheek a few days ago she's going to get herself in trouble and I'm trying to prevent that. I really hope people can actually help me out here if anything this before she gets herself expelled or suspended. Halp pls 💀

[Anonymous]

Honestly that’s a tough one. To me that’s a red flag. But here’s what could possibly happen. You reject her, she goes around making up lies about you, maybe even saying you’re the one who was sexually harassing her. Word gets out then other dudes start calling you a bitch cause you didn’t go for it. That you’re a wimp or something or even gay cause you turned her down. I wouldn’t delete her messages either. In case something does come up. But I’d address it to her. If she doesn’t listen then you’ll have to move to a higher authority, whether that’s your teacher or principal. She may get suspended but that’s on her, you’ve given her a chance but she didn’t respect your wishes. Men need to check women these days for the bs they do that they get away w. Society tells them they can’t do wrong, they’re perfect, it’s the man’s fault, etc. More men need to call out women for their behavior life they do w men.

[Cody2004]

I've been honestly thinking about a lot of what you said and thankfully I did save stuff just in case

[Opinion Owner]

Is this an issue at school?

[Cody2004]

Yes she does not care it happens at school as well which is the reason I'm so frustrated about this is because she got physical recently with what she was doing

[Opinion Owner]

So then take it to your teacher, one you trust before going to the principal. Because she doesn’t care about you as a person. So why should you care about her getting suspended or expelled? You shouldn’t.

[Cody2004]

The only reason I cares because it's my sister's friend and my sister doesn't talk too much people that's why I'm trying to resolve it with her personally

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so talk to your sister. Ask her if she can talk to her. If she doesn’t believe you show her the text.

[Cody2004]

Oh she'll believe me it's just the fact that she's overprotective as shit I'll tell her but I just have to hope she won't attack her I'll tell her yeah I think that's the best way to go about it thank you I appreciate your opinion on this

[demonics]

Whats wrong with her getting expelled or suspended? Switch the roles and ask if you'd get and fcks given to you.

[Cody2004]

I understand where are you coming from I'm leaning towards the expelled or suspended thing it's just hard because I know she likes me and I try to be nice to her

[LazerBean]

Just tell her you don't like that and let her get suspended if she doesn't stop

[Cody2004]

Yeah I don't think she's going to stop but I am definitely going to feel bad about her getting suspended or even expelled you're probably right though

[LazerBean]

Dont feel bad, it's good for people to learn that their choices have consequences

[Cody2004]

I appreciate that thank you

[Nikki1989]

Tell her that her actions are not appreciated.

[Cody2004]

I tried that several times. I appreciate the comment though but if you have literally any other ideas on how to not get her in trouble but get through to her I'm all ears

[loveslongnails]

Tell her she's not making you want her by doing what she's doing, but rather she's making you not even want to be her friend.