So I’ve been talking to this girl for 2 months now. We’ve met up a couple times, even with friends since we have mutual friends and last week we went on a date. The date went great, spent the whole afternoon together, and she told me she liked me. That night I asked her if she wanted to date, and she told me she was “casually dating other guys” (going on dates and stuff like that) but that it wasn’t anything serious. We talked shortly after and she told me that she likes spending time with me and talking to me and she’d like to go on more dates with me to see where it goes. I’m really confused and don’t really know what to do, or how to proceed. I don’t want to end up jumping through hoops for her just to be led on.
Lots of the time girls tend to get invested in one guy for him to decide a month later that they’re not interested anymore and you never hear from him again. So she’s being sensible and keeping her options open whilst things are new. Keep asking her on dates, she obviously likes you, she’s been honest and she wants to go out with you again. Go for it and ask her on a date again, see how it goes and if you’re still interested in a couple more dates then bring it up again about if she’d like to date you. Tell her where you’re at and that you’d like to be exclusive dating. Good luck :)
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She sounds like she really likes you and casually dating guys is fine until she meets the one worthy. So that could be you. She wants to go on more dates so step up and let her know you are interest and that you would like to get to know her and also set boundaries let her know that you like her but that you would not like her casually dating others if it's too soon to say that then wait until later when you guys go on more dates
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