My (female) friend made a comment towards me that has me wondering if she is into me? pls see details?

[Anonymous]

We were sitting on the patio and smoking (420). When I sit I cross my leg and I have a habit of shaking my leg while it’s crossed. While smoking she made a comment and said “why do you shake your leg” and I said “oh wow I didn’t even notice that I was doing that haha” we both laugh and I asked “is it making you nervous” and she says “no I think it’s cute”. Her sister came in so the conversation changed.

Some hours passed and we were outside again and the same thing happened and she made the same comment. What do you guys think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that's super interesting she commented on your leg shaking twice like that! Some possible signs she may have a little crush:

- Paying close attention to subtle things you do could mean she's into you.

- Calling it "cute" is a compliment that seems flirty, not just friendly.

- The fact she brought it up more than once shows she was really noticing you.

- Could be an indirect way to gauge if you might be into girls too since you joked about it making her nervous.

Of course you know her best, but from an outsider perspective it does seem like maybe she likes ya! A few things you could try:

- Flirt back gently and see how she reacts. Smile more, compliment her style too.

- Bring up LGBT topics casually and watch her body language.

- Suggest a fun activity for just the two of you and see if it feels date-like.

Play it cool for now but it sounds promising! Keep your heart open and trust your instincts, babe. Either way she sounds like a good friend. Hope this helps - keep me posted!

[Asker]

Thanks for replying! She knows I’m a lesbian, I told her back when we first met (because I was talking about my ex) so she already knows about me. Only thing is she never mentioned if she was or fell anywhere on the “gay” scale. I saw her yesterday when she was working. She’s the bar manager at a restaurant I go to have a few glasses of wine. And she invited me to her place again tomorrow (today), to have wine. So I think I will ask her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh girl, it's sounding even more promising if she already knows you're a lesbian and she's still giving you these vibes! Especially inviting you over alone for wine - that's definitely sounding like a date vibe situation.

I'd say go for it and see what happens! Pay attention to little things like if she finds excuses to touch you at all during the night or sits close to you on the couch or whatever. Those can be hints.

But also, you have nothing to lose by directly asking in a light, casual way too. Like when the wine is flowing a bit you could say something like "so are you ever into girls or?" and see how she responds. Worst case she says no but hopefully your friendship won't be weird.

Either way it seems there's potential interest there so have fun with it girlfriend! Keep me posted on how wine night goes - hopefully you'll have an awesome connection. Rooting for you two! 🥂

[Anonymous]

i think you were stoned and misinterpreted the harmless comment.

[Asker]

It was more so her face expression when she said it but yeah I get it

[Anonymous]

You are reading so much into one simple comment.

[Asker]

It was more so her face expression when she said it but yeah I get it

[Luckyclover12]

She’s into you

[Asker]

You’re the only one to say that. Why do you think so?

[Luckyclover12]

Well I would test it a little more first but she could be.

[Anonymous]

It probably means nothing