Girls, If you hit a guy jokingly and he started to cry would you be turned off?

[Anonymous]

[petitedollbabee]

Why would I be turned on in the first place? I’d apologise and make sure he’s ok.

[Asker]

Because a guy or man crying isn’t seen as manly.

[petitedollbabee]

According to who? I think that being able to healthily express emotions is one of the most attractive things that someone can do, man or woman. Men who bottle up their emotions and show nothing but anger, they’re not attractive to me.

[Asker]

I've known girls who take pride ruining a guy's life.

[petitedollbabee]

How does that relate to the question? I’ve known guys who take pride in ruining a woman’s life - there’s horrible people in the world, regardless of gender.

[Asker]

It relates to the question because they would say I want to ruin a guys life and I hope he cries because he’s a bitch. I don’t know why it’s normalized to behave that way or act that way.

[petitedollbabee]

It’s not normalised.. nothing about that is normal. Still not sure how that relates to jokingly hitting a guy and him crying, though. That seems more of an accident than “I want to ruin his life”.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would be turned off. If I hit him jokingly, it wouldn’t have been very hard. If that makes him cry, yikes!