Girls, Would you be turned off if your boyfriend cried infront of you?

[Anonymous]

I've had a lot of stress lately and it's been a struggle. I just lost my job due to covid and my family is having a big fight that is pulling us all apart.
Last night I was on the couch with my girlfriend and resting my head on her lap. We were talking about all this stuff and I just snapped and started crying. It was embarrassing but I couldn't hold it in. She was good about it, she was just stroking my hair and hugging me.
After about 10min it passed and I actually felt better afterwards.

Its the first time I've ever cried infront of someone as an adult and I hope it has not damaged how she sees me.

Girls, would a man crying like this infront of you make you see him in a negative way?

[Kas19]

Absolutey not. My boyfriend has bad days just like anyone else. A good cry helps. I just hold him and listen to him until he feels better, then we discuss whatever is bothering him to find a solution. It makes all the difference when you know someone loves you and has your back.

[Anonymous]

It's a turn on for me. Ik i am weird😒
It's just that there's lot of pressure on me to not cry because it is seen as less masculine but if a guy cries in front of you, it means he trusts you enough and that you're special.
But if he is someone who cries frequently with anyone , a big turn off.

[Poppykate]

It’s fine! We have all been there! Hang in there. It will get better!

[pleasestopthis]

No, I'd be worried about the reason for him to be upset and I'd try to comfort him or listen to him.