Guys, would it bother you if a girl hit you playfully?

[Allie_Oops]

I do mean playfully. Like as in a flirting way, she lightly slaps your shoulder or something. I don't mean she decks you in the face and breaks your nose.

Yes, don't touch me.

No, I think it's fine and sometimes cute.

I only like it if I'm interested in dating the girl.

I don't mind it if I know the girl personally.

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[Errantsquire]

I'm not the kind of guy that likes to be touched, but I'm getting over it. It takes me time to get physical and I'm pushing myself when I'm out meeting new people. The other issue is that you need to make sure the girl is ok with it which takes time to learn how to calibrate to what's ok for the woman too. As always if someone doesn't want to be touched back down immediately.

[Kapakani]

Why would it bother me haha. when use to work at target garden center co worker females use to spray me with the water hose, during Christmas, hit me in the butt with gift wrap, cover my eyes in the break room and say guess who, or punch my thigh lol... it was fun not bothersome to me 😂

[Justcallmealy]

I don't like when a guy hits me playfully so I won't. That's just disrespectful. The last guys who "hit playfully" got a good slap on his ear and was lucky to be driving the car I was in, otherwise I would have smack his fucking face against the cockpit

[Pinay_ako]

guys dig that especially if they like you too. until someone gets hurt lol

[StephenCF]

I did get verbally aggressive with a girl at a rap gig who kept tapping my shoulder from behind and then looking away when I turned around. I found it cute the first time or so & I knew she was flirting, but I wasn’t interested and despite gesturing her to stop, she kept tapping my shoulder when I was trying to have fun. I lost it eventually and got so angry her guy friends had to step in between us under the impression I could potentially whack the make-up off her face

[SjE78]

not at all no, i mean i can sense if any impact was intentionally done to cause harm so if i get the feeling which i tend to that it was playful I dont bother, but also i barely feel much when i get hit anyway...

[Miristheiss]

Joey didn't like it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7m5v8pLtog

[N192K001]

If it's blatantly obvious that it's playful and there's no hostility in the air, it should not merit retaliation.

But ideally, I's like to isolate any hitting to actual defense and/or training.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It's cute and I appreciate that she feels comfortable to engage with me. But at the same time, it's not like it doesn't hurt or that I don't notice that you and others are perfectly fine with me being struck.

I just try to focus on the positive.

[markscott]

It's fine if she wants to playfully hit me. It's often a way of showing caring and friendship, or even more.

[OptimusPrime2017]

I wouldn't dare touch a woman or be touched. Not one bit. Not worth it. Don't wanna repeat a bad experience that might lead me to potential legal trouble. Been there, done that.

[InTimoreDei]

If she's an adorable type of girl that I know intimately then no I don't mind. If she is Brutish and stuck up, it would aggravate me a little.

[Death-of-rats]

play fighting is always a turn on and normally leads to awesome sex

[Dankster96]

I took pewee Karate and Judo from ages 5 to 11 so I'm sort of wired to take any sort of hitting as a challenge.

[AndrewMG]

I've play wrestled girls I've dated on occasions in a playful manner, being brought up with 3 brothers I've never minded a bit of horseplay lol

[AynonOMouse]

If I am in a relationship with the girl then I would like that a lot and often if she was playful in that way.

[Thatsamazing]

No, as long as it was light and not intended to cause harm.

[whitehide]

If I like her, it's fine. If I don't know her, or don't like her, she really shouldn't touch me

[HopelessPaul]

If I touched a woman playfully, I'd get sued and doxxed as a misogynistic devil. Why should I let them do as they want to me in return?

[Triple7s]

Only if it turned into some sick sex thing because I hate the idea of violence and sex going together even if i am the one being hit

[JamesRandiDebates]

If a man does that to a woman it's considered assault. No need for a double standard.

[Allie_Oops]

No it's not lol. I've had guys playfully shove me or grab me or wrestle. It definitely was not assault lol.

Granted, men have to be more careful not to hurt us just because they're stronger but I don't think I've met a woman who would consider that assault

[Cask23]

That's ok. She'll get a good spanking in return when we get home.

[Eternal_Blizzard]

I'm going straight for your ponytail after you start first

[monkeynutts]

Yeah I'll fuck her in the face with some saddle bags.

[grega239]

If probably be baffled by the fact that a woman is touching me in any kind of way

[psychosam]

I've had complete strangers do that to me, never bothered me even slightly. Why would it

[Smf1989]

I only like it if I'm interested in dating the girl.

[ShadowofRegret]

I do not mind it myself.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes i like for a girl to hit me playfully.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

I actually like when she fights me a little bit.

[codycccccccccc]

I have a extremely high tolerance to pain so no

[BBubbles]

Nah, I'd just hit her back, playfully.

[Kravmaga_-]

I think it's fine and cute!

[MisterSir]

Yes, don't touch me.

[name_is_eric]

I prefer authentic hits. Might aswell go all out.

[Dolemite510]

I’d know she was flirting if it was a playful hit

[UI_Vegeta01]

The first option is always the best option

[ChiPaPa]

It's cute.

[esotericstory]

I dont like it.

[ditmir123]

No...