Girls, how would you feel if you new boyfriend said you are an alpha female when you really aren't?

[sage2021]

I just stick up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. Does that make me an alpha female?

[HelpfulWoman]

i'd leave. any person who thinks the alpha/beta bullshit is not someone who i want to be around.

[sage2021]

@HelpfulWoman
I never heard of an Alpha Female until I was 61 years older.

If you want to call me that because I'm not lazy and sit on my ass instead of being the doer person, then call it whatever you want.
As far as I am concerned it's some stupid social media thing, otherwise I would have heard the term before being 61 years old.

[Anonymous]

lol sometimes it takes an outside perspective to see things others don’t. Sounds like you’re bossy.

[sage2021]

@annoymous
So is the main criteria for being Alpha Female being bossy?

[Opinion Owner]

In most cases yes. Bossy, argumentative,

[Opinion Owner]

Would you say you’re like that?

[sage2021]

@Anonymous
No, I am not argumentative.
But about be bossy, I can be if the guy is stupid and doesn't know what needs to be done and leaves it all up to the woman.
In my eyes someone who is stupid and doesn't protect his girl or his family is a wimp. A panty waste!
Men on this site have repeatedly said that a man is supposed to provide, protect, and procreate. Can a wimpy man do all that? If he can't, then it falls back on the woman to take care of business.
If something breaks in the house you and a woman share, do you take care of it and get it fixed, or does the woman have to take on that responsibility too, plus have a full time job, take care of the household chores, including making the car gets the oil changed, car washed, tires full. I was married twice and both guys left everything up to me and I had a son to raise and take care of.

One was in the US Navy and when he wasn't at work he was a 🎸 guitar player in a band. I had to do every fricken thing including the shopping and the cooking. He made a big deal about taking out the trash from the kitchen - his only chore!
The 2nd husband was a asshole and a wimp. Again, everything was left up to me to do and we had a three story house to care for. Did he ever mow the fricken lawn on his own. No! He would wait until I asked him to.
Never again would I be with a panty waste guy. I was forced to take care of everything or live like pigs!

[Opinion Owner]

So I hate to say this but this sounds like you attract these type of men for a reason. Something about you deters masculine men from gravitating to you. Not sure what that is. Again, maybe the masculine energy you put out. It’s hard to say w out actually knowing you as a person. Part of me feels like you like to be the dominate one in a relationship, so somehow you end up w men who are weaker so you can have control. I don’t think it’s intentional as far as looking for men like this. It just happens

[exitseven]

I am not a big believer in that but in sone respects I could see why somebody would say that

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[NathanDavis]

never met someone in real life talking "alpha" stuff...

and if they did... I would just walk away from them, lol

[Likes2drive]

I’m not a girl, but I would think he is saying you are very bossy I guess

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
So, is the main criteria for being an Alpha Female being bossy?

[Likes2drive]

Yeah and not taking any crap from no one

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
And what do you call a guy that let's people just walk all over them and doesn't stick up for himself or his family?
He's a wimp in my eyes. He doesn't have any backbone and not one of the main characteristics which is which most men say they are in a relationship and that is a protector.
I guess if he's a wimp with no backbone he would need to be with an Alpha Female so she would be the protector of her and their family if he isn't capable of doing it.

[Likes2drive]

Probably would need a strong assertive woman if the the guy is not very aggressive

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 it would feel nice to me

[RedInnocent69]

I would just take it. Would you rather be nothing?