Im avoiding a girl, but she keeps forcing conversation with me anyway?

[Anonymous]

I been ignoring this girl who plays games but she knows im ignoring her & avoiding her but when she runs into me she will still say hi & still force a conversation out of me to where I have to respond and be nice cause we're at work. Why?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh dude that sounds annoying as hell. My guess is she just likes the attention, even if it's negative. Some girls are like that.

Since you're at work you gotta play nice, but keep it short and grey rock her as much as you can. Just be like "hey" and give one word answers so she gets the hint you're not trying to chat. Don't ask her questions back or volunteer any info about yourself.

If she pushes just say you're busy and walk away. Or you could bring up somethingelse going on during your convos so the subjects always changing before she can drag it out.

Don't let her bait you into getting mad either - then she wins. Just stay polite but distant. She'll get bored if you don't give her a reaction. Sooner or later she'll find someone else to annoy, bros before.. well, you know haha. Hang in there!

[OlderAndWiser]

"I been ignoring this girl who plays games but she knows im ignoring her & avoiding her." By my definition, you, too, are playing games. Why haven't you told her directly that you are not interested in anything other than a cordial working relationship?

[Asker]

I already have she has a boyfriend and she still converses with me. Claiming she won't go behind his back but still is trying to entertain me hard-core.

[OlderAndWiser]

Tell her that if she continues, you will report her for sexual harassment in the workplace.

[Asker]

What is it, you think she wants?

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe she’s looking for her next relationship, or maybe she’s just trying to make the current guy jealous.

[Anonymous]

You don't have to be nice, just avoid and don't talk to her if that's better for you. You have to follow your own vibe. Why you care, I mean she is just another human on earth if you don't like her just live your life.

[Pennywise_6]

Tell her politely.

[Asker]

Lol I have and how is ignoring not good enough sign? She has a boyfriend too

[Pennywise_6]

Then tell her guy.

[Asker]

Lol guys blame you, what is it you think she wants from me?

[Pennywise_6]

Or maybe you're the problem.

[Asker]

How am I the problem I'm ignoring her lol

[Pennywise_6]

You're over reacting.

[Asker]

Lol to?

[Pennywise_6]

Yup, you are indeed the problem.

[Asker]

:)...

[Pennywise_6]

Yup, you are problem.