I am jealous of pretty women, how can I just focus on myself?

[Anonymous]

I have a lot of insecurities and I am so jealous of pretty women. I truly hate hearing about how their lives are hard i role my eyes so much when my friend talks about how her attractive friend lives a difficult life because men hit on her. Womp womp first world problems and not to mention although i am not attractive sometimes men hit on me too but men are just desperate for any girl basically but somehow its only a struggle for them. I have a lot of negative emotions and a lot of jealousy and insecurities; i am very insecure i never dated although i am 25 and i don’t think i will date any time soon as i have a very superficial outlook. I feel like i need to focus on myself and forget about other women and relationships and men and just focus on ME. Maybe in developing myself or becoming a better person but I don't know where and how to start without envy.

[TommyMountainFigure]

How do you start? Next time your friend tells you of her 'pretty' friend that has all these issues. Listen carefully. You will notice, that being pretty or being ugly makes no difference to how insecure a person is.

You want proof? How many times have you heard women who claim they are pretty, asking why guys are too shy to approach them?

You are right though. You need to focus on yourself until you are comfortable in your own skin, because until you are? You will never believe you are good enough for anyone else, and that isn't a criticism of your looks, it is a criticism of how you perceive yourself to look!

[mbarsi01]

Who says guys hit on anyone maybe the incels that was kinda lame

[Asker]

Well they hit on me and that shows how desperate they are and how they hit on literally any walking creature I wouldn’t hit on me if i was a man💀

[mbarsi01]

okayy well then maybe you’re not as ugly as you think. I don’t know if it’s true but I read that the average person sees themselves as 10% more attractive or uglier than they really are

[Asker]

That’s an interesting percentage

[mbarsi01]

Don’t think that all guys hit on anybody that is really not true just the guys who are desperate

[mbarsi01]

It doesn’t mean that they are the ugly kind of desperate they’re just lonely. Women in prison will have sex with a 3/10 because they have a penis

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There are a lot of very pretty women.

Instead of being jealous of others, try being the best version of yourself you can possibly be.

[Danny_dan92]

By not worrying about others

[war_daddy]

it's natural to be jealous. you're a failure.

[Asker]

You are so real

[war_daddy]

lol thanks

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

Boomer, let the young discuss🤔

[Opinion Owner]

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