How do you not get jealous of beautiful people?

[littlemissthing]

i work with a girl who is not just cute, not just pretty, but downright gorgeous and stunning. it's like she's an escaped vs angel or something. it's hard to work with her because she always makes me feel worse about myself. she's such a nice girl too so she's pretty much perfect. it makes me think why can't I be like that? why can't I be stunning with an amazing personality? a lot of other girls at our work feel the same.

[Freetobe007]

You really need to fully understand that in this life, you need more than a gorgeous face to feel things on the best extremes. Desire something greater than a gorgeous face. Stop putting this girl on a pedestal. I'm sure there are flaws to her personality just like there are to every one else's as well. You've got to learn true, pure confidence. Recognize and appreciate what you have and who you are then promote your individuality.

Trust me honey, I know gorgeous girls who are so ordinary and just don't take it to the next level. They may get lots of attention, but at the end of the day, no one wants a wife, girlfriend, or a friend who is just gonna rely on looks and not have so much to bring to the table. Don't feel bad :) Keep your head up. You never know with people these days. For all you know, she could have been sexually abused growing up because she's so pretty and she has emotional and mental scars that make her emotionally unavailable and miserable deep down. You never know...

[laleda]

If there is one thing I've learned over the years then it is that nobody is perfect. I know what you're talking about, I used to look at some girls like that as well. But then, for example, I heard that this girl actually used be very sick when she was younger and still needs to go to the hospital for it nowadays. So she may be pretty and all, but she has to live with the fact that things still can go wrong with her health. And I don't. I'm not all that pretty, but I'm not sick. I'm healthy and I can live my life the way I want to without a second think if things might be bad for me. I heard other things like this of other girls to of whom I'd just to thought 'how could you be so perfect?'

So we all have our good and bad sides. The one is pretty, the other one is healthy. It's just what you put more value to..

[slipslender]

i think it's normal to get a little jealous... just as long as you don't plan on killing her or something...lol... clearly, I've been watching too many lifetime movies :p anyways, I'm sure she's got her own flaws and her own issues, like everybody else out there. the point is, just keep in mind what you have to offer. you can admire someone without hating on yourself, you know :)

[RealDeal]

Understand that everyone is beautiful.

It's called self esteem, it's an esteem of yourself. She isn't making you feel less, you are by comparing yourself to her.

Put on a smile and forget what you are up against. Because when we see that comparing, drama, we want nothing to do with it.

How do you not be jealous of beautiful people? Understand that they are just people, and even though you can't see any flaws in them, doesn't mean they aren't there. You might not think you're beautiful but I'm sure someone else might thing differently.

[krazzyfour36]

'Nobody is perfect' this is what you'll get for the answers... But an advice is why don't you be what you are.. Try to be best you can be with what you have.. Try new looks, new hairstyle, new attire.. Make odd combinations.. Make your own style! Not just an answer, because I DID IT!

[Stacyzee]

I am perfectly confident with the way I look and I don't compare myself to others. I give other people compliments in my head "Like Wow, she's gorgeous." but I never put myself down because I am fine with me. It sounds like you have insecurity issues.

[italykam]

I do get like that occasionally but I need to remingd myself, that I am pretty in my own unique way, Everyone is different. If everyone had the same kind of beauty, this world would be rather boring. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You see what you want to see and make of it whatever you will. There is beauty in everything, it would do ya good to remember that.

[naturaldisaster]

Whether she's beautiful or not, there's nothing you can do to make yourself more beautiful. God gave us this body and this face, you have to learn to accept yourself, if you won't accept yourself then who will?

Youre gorgeous as well, don't let others make you feel self conscious about yourself just because they look like a VS model, believe me even VS models think theyre ugly.

[Mesonfielde]

You wear makeup yet you still dislike your appearance?

Well, that's quite bothersome. The only one who can learn to accept your own appearance is you.

And considering most guys are unpredictable in what they like physically, you really shouldn't grieve on who's "more beautiful and who is not", considering it is not necessarily universal in terms of attraction.

[Jay_So_Lovely]

well if you thought that your were beautiful also and that you had wonderful things to offer...I don't think we'd be having this conversation. I know I'm not the most beautiful person the world has ever seen but I do think I'm beautiful and I have a lot to offer, So believe me when I tell you I never get jealous, if anything when I see a beautiful girl I'm the first one to compliment her. Don't be bitter, just do better.

[mobiusforniner]

If you look like you do in your profile picture then I have no idea why you're asking this question.

Also, guys are not always attracted to the gorgeous and stunning women. I like women that have a cute smile and a beautiful heart.

[zickzack]

Maybe this: "mirror, mirror at the wall, who is the most beautiful in the land?" (Spieglein, Spieglein an der Wand, wer ist die Sch?nste I'm ganzen Land?") "You of course mistress queen, who else."

ha-ha-ha

[lananoel]

you don't compare.. Just stop! For every drop dead gorgeous person someone else walks over even MORE GORGEOUS than the 1st!. Take a good look at yourself highlight your positives... Tell yourself I'm just as good and go on with your day.

[WeaponZero]

Because I don't much care for looks in myself or others. My fitness goals pertain to functional fitness and athletic capability. I don't care if I ever get a six pack.

[mattygfromtheMD32]

Simple: I'm not them, and never will be. No reason to be jealous of something I'm not, or never will be.

[iPood]

Just because someone else is gorgeous doesn't make you any less pretty.

[zickzack]

A lot of the beautiful people are problematic, because they are often narcisstic/selfish.

[Jazz_92]

work on you then