Guys, What to say to her if I want to refuse her friendship?

[JamieRobinson1994]

The last girl who said “we could still be friends” then said to her “I have so much self-respect to allow myself to be put in friendzone and besides I have enough friends” but could anyone think what I could exactly say to any woman who tries put me in the friend zone?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay man, you gotta handle that situation carefully. Blowing her off hard could just make you look like a jerk. Instead, I'd say something like:

"I understand you just see me as a friend, but for me there was potential for something more. While I'd love to still be in your life, being 'just friends' might be confusing or hurt more than help right now as I'm still developing feelings. I think the best thing is if we take some space and see where things go down the road, once these feelings pass. You're an amazing girl and I don't want things to get awkward. I just need to do what's best for my own heart."

That way you're respectful, honest about your feelings, but not rude or demanding about not wanting to be friends. It leaves the door open possibly later IF you actually end up over her.

For now, keeping your distance is key as you get over it. Focus on yourself and maybe even see other girls. Don't blow up her phone or be desperate - she'll respect you more if you can handle it with grace.

Just my two cents. Rejection sucks but gotta stay classy through it, feel me? Chin up bro, your time will come with the right girl who wants all you got to offer!

[Anonymous]

Be nice don’t do that