You can but if you really think about it, you're sticking yourself in the friendzone. 1st because she's a woman doesn't make her any less of a person, your rejection may be sore and hurt to her like any other person. So bouncing back and trying to reinstate foreplay and courting is almost insulting. You're basically telling her she's an option and you're gonna play it on the rebound. 2nd if you're going to play it from the friendzone, you're going to have to become her confidant and that's a lot of work. The biggest rule in the friendzone is how she chooses to persue you now, and you should be fairly charismatic to overcome the hurdles she'll put in front of you especially if she's into someone else.
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i don't think it's ok since it's not really friendship you are offering but in truth you are trying to get back together with her. it also seems rather disrespectful of her relationship
just imagine how you would feel if you were dating a girl and some guy was plotting what you are suggesting
You should leave her be and let her move on (considering she’s not single or is into someone else). You made that choice to not give her a chance at being a great romantic partner until after she moved on with someone who appreciates her efforts. If you genuinely care about her, you would stay out of her way of finding happiness with someone else.
Move on. If she’s taken and in a relationship, don’t try to peruse her in any way. She may not be single anymore or ever again if the relationship she’s in right now is “the one”. You may have missed your chance, but I’m sure later on once things have settled, you could maybe talk to her about a friendship rather than a relationship
Following the conversation with the other Anon, I can't quite get my finger into it. How come you rejected her because he approached you at a canteen? What did she say after sitting?
Don't offer friendship if your holding out for more. Friendship can happen after rejection but only if both have moved on.
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No just leave her alone. You didn't want her so leave it at that.
You probably only changed your mind because she's with someone else, the classic you want what you can't have.move on !!
if you want her back to you wait till she's singleYou want her back... don't ask for friendship. Move on from this girl and find someone else
I'm sorry you messed up do the right thing and Leave her be for now.
How come you initially rejected her?
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