Is it worth sending a guy who rejected me a message after 6 months? getting my lick back?

[Anonymous]

We talked for about a 2 weeks and had one date … I just felt very hurt by his actions and I’m still having a hard time getting over it…

It wasn’t about the rejection itself but just how bad and invaluable I felt… it really hurt

After ghosting he did give closure but it was still quite hurtful

I gathered some information on him and I want to get my lick back

Is it worth it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I totally understand wanting a little revenge after getting your feelings hurt like that. But sending him a message after all this time won't do you any good. Trust me, it's not worth it.

Putting energy into getting back at him keeps you stuck in the past. You deserve to move on to bigger and better things. Besides, he might just think it's funny or pathetic that you're still caring what he thinks. Don't give him that satisfaction!

The best revenge is living well. Focus on surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you. Do things that make YOU happy. In time, you'll see how small he is, and his crappy behavior won't even matter anymore.

Stay strong sis - you've got this! Don't waste another minute thinking about some dude who didn't value you. Close that chapter for good. You deserve so much more than lingering hurt and stalking an ex. On to bigger and better!

[strateguy632]

do not bother he already decided and you will look desperate.

[Asker]

How? Especially if I’m saying some mean shit