Good time, long time or no time?

[Anonymous]

I met this girl that likes to get high and so a couple weeks later she moves away, well a couple months later I said hi on fb and she invited me over after asking if I had something she could get high on and I said yes.
I get there after an hour and 5 minutes of driving and it's weird because it's her mom's house and I'm almost her mom's age but anyway they say I can stay the night if I need to or want to but I leave.
I go up there and hang out again and we go to the creek and stuff it's fun amd I go home later.
So now I'm talking to her and I don't have any stuff but she says cmon she wanna hang out anyway and so yes I'm thinking it's not just the stuff she after but anyway we get to the creek and swim around and I notice she keeps bending over in front of me and it is hot shit but my insecurities keep me from advancing and anyway all the sudden her mood changes and she plays some song singing I tried to give it to you and now on the way back she telling me which way to go and says well I didn't want you to forget being a smart ass, so is was she mad because I didn't go for it?
She was messaging me but now when I messag her she will barely respond, why?
We kind of had decided to go floating a couple weeks ago when I asked her if she wanted to and yes yes yes she said but when I just asked her about it well she read the message but hasn't answered it yet, so my question is did I blow it already?

[DishLady]

Ok, so the whole thing just sounds crazy. First of all... if one or both of you is high there's no way you're sorting through genuine feelings properly at the same time. Next, DO NOT "go for it" while she's under the influence, old man, otherwise you can get slapped with a date rape incident before you can say "pot".

Lastly... can you not find someone your own age? Why are you fiddling with some young thing whose parents are basically your age? SMH.

[Asker]

No I wasn't trying to take advantage of anybody and I don't even know what smh means lol
Also she isn't like that I'm pretty sure as she is really like or seemed to like to hang out and was. Just really sweet and was happy when I asked if she wanted to go floating and sounded happy af to go, I of coarse thought sexual thoughts but I for real just enjoyed going and seeing her and I still think she turned it into something sexual and got mad because I didn't try to have sex with her but I don't know I'm probably wrong.
She hasn't hit me up since that last time though and she was before that, she wouldn't even answer me if she still wanna go floating so I guess I'm just gonna let her be silent

[HurremSultan]

I think you are fine. There is still a chance

[Asker]

Yeah I don't think so lol but thanks for trying to help and even more thanks for being kind.

[Asker]

I think you are right because she messaged me telling me to come hang out with her 😊