What should I do? Should save up money for plastic surgery or see a shrink?

[Anonymous]

I'm an 18-year-old girl who struggles with low self-confidence. I often wish I was more physically attractive, like the other girls my age. I've even asked God why I was made to look the way I do, and why guys don't seem interested in me. I can't help but wonder what's wrong with me. Unfortunately, I don't have the financial means to undergo plastic surgery, which I think could help me feel more confident about my appearance. I don’t have anyone to talk about my problem. I been crying everyday because I’m ugly and other girls have a better life. I keep asking God but don’t get a respond.

[Emmytexrex]

You don't love yourself you give heed to what people are saying about you just shrink that will be better I understand what you are going through because I have been looked down like that before called all manner of names insulting my facts and my looks I didn't care though

[exitseven]

The next time you see your doctor mention this to him (or her) and express your feelings.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Plastic surgery and filler will age you so much more quickly than any other psychological problem. See a therapist, it’s cheaper and better for you

[Asker]

So I should try makeup right?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you hate yourself, there’s not enough contour, foundation, or lip stain that’s going to change that

[Asker]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

Why do you need plastic surgery at 18 see a shrink

[Asker]

Because I’m ugly

[Iron_Man]

no you’re not it’s all in your head

[Asker]

I’m actually is ugly. Guys used to call me ugly bitch or ugly. People I know hinted I was ugly.

[Iron_Man]

I’m sure you’re overreacting

[Asker]

I’m not

[RedInnocent69]

Shrink first.

[Asker]

Then the plastic surgery

[RedInnocent69]

Hopefully the shrink can help you understand why you want the plastic surgery, and help you make the best choice, whether or not that’s surgery.

[Asker]

Thanks