Girls, Why is she doing this?

[Anonymous]

Met this girl online and within a week she gave me her number. She’s sending me short clips of her lip syncing to songs and when I say should I call you? She’s like I’m too nervous/shy to talk to you

:-s

[Anonymous]

Careful you aren’t being catfished. Usually those people avoid phone calls or video calls of any kind if somehow it could blow their cover.

[Asker]

Nah she sent me videos of herself

[Opinion Owner]

Did she say her name and yours in the videos? More than one at least?

[Asker]

I can tell it’s legit

[Asker]

No, but I met her online, she’s a nurse, she told me let’s face time one day, still beginning stages but she’s sent vids of her lip syncing and she’s like your so funny, I like talking to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Please do not be stubborn or aloof about protecting yourself. Get some solid evidence that she is who she says she is. Beginning stages can quickly turn into weeks and months, then before you know it you’re falling for this woman blindly without having video chatted or anything solid. Even a first date happens in the first two weeks and you see one another, a video chat is fair and I think you should insist before you catch more feelings. So before you defend her tooth and nail, let me clarify that this is only me seeing the signs and suggesting you should cover your ass in that aspect.

[DishLady]

She’s being “cute” 🙄. You can call her.