Why is she doing this?

[Anonymous]

I have a person that I considered a friend in my life but the past couple of years she’s been ignoring most of my messages and responds seldomly so I gave up trying to be friends. But the messages I do send her she ends up quoting them and using them in her story or posts without tagging me or responding to me. They’re not like quotable messages either. She’ll just take a sentence out of what I said and use it. I also found out a guy I told her I was interested in and her are friends on instagram after she told me she didn’t know him. Why do you think she kind of uses my messages against me? Or do you think I should feel that way?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should just end that friendship. Sounds like it’s dying out anyway and it’s super rude for her to use parts of your message repeatedly but never respond? Like the audacity to open a message time after time, read it, post part of it, but not reply to the person. I’d be very done.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Nikki1989]

It seems like a sign of unhealthy boundaries and a lack of respect for your friendship.

[Asker]

Thank you

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Have you ever confronted her behavior?

[Asker]

No. I don’t feel like she’s acknowledge it. I’ve kind backed off now I just never understood her.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Well, if you don’t ask, of course you’re not going to understand

[Asker]

I don’t feel She’ll acknowledge it*

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe you can just ask her if she actually wants to be friends or just acquaintances

[Asker]

Thank you